Nasehat bijak orangtua kepada anak adalah warisan paling bermanfaat bagi anak-anak dalam memaknai arti kehidupan nya agar menjadi anak yang soleh dan berbakti kepada orang tuanya ,dengan kasih sayang orang tua juga memberikan nasihat dan wasiat untuk anaknya agar tidak menjadi anak durhaka kepada orangtuanya yang telah mendidik dan membesarkan anaknya sampai akhir hidupnya dengan tidak mengenal lelah.
didunia yang fana menuju kehidupan abadi yang kekal.
Ini adalah sebuah kisah teladan perjalanan hidup orangtua baik ibu maupun ayah yang mendambakan anak
Mari kita belajar dari kisah-kisah orang soleh terdahulu yang dapat dijadikan t
eladan dalam hidup agar dapat berbakti kepada kedua orang tua ayah dan ibu. Berikut adalah ungkapan kata-kata bijak dan kata-kata mutiara serta pesan nasihat dalam wasiat orang tua kepada anaknya agar tidak mengulang kisah - kisah anak durhaka kepada orangtua ( ibu dan ayah );
Anakku,Saat aku bertambah tua,ku harap engkau akan mengerti dan bersabar terhadapku. Jika saja nanti aku memecahkan piring, ataupun memuntahkan sup di meja oleh karena aku kehilangan penglihatanku, ku harap engkau tidak berteriak kepadaku, atau membentakku. Sebab orang-orang tua itu begitu sensitive, mereka akan mudah mengasihani diri sendiri bila dimarahi.
Saat pendengaranku mulai memburuk dan aku gak jelas lagi mendengar apa yang engkau katakana, ku harap engkau gak menyebutku: Tuli! tolong ulangi saja apa yang mau engkau katakan, atau tuliskan itu di selembar kertas agar aku dapat mengerti.
Maafkanlah aku, anakku
sebab bukan salahku bila aku bertambah tua dan lemah.
Saat lututku mulai gampang gemetar, ku harap engkau cukup sabar untuk membantuku berdiri. Sama seperti yang pernah dulu kulakukan padamu, membantumu jalan saat engkau masih kecil, mengajarimu cara berjalan.
Tolong bersabarlah padaku, saat aku terus mengulangi kata berulang, ku harapkan engkau gak bosan mendengarkan kata-kataku nanti.
Tolong jangan juga mengolok-olok kelemahan dan ketidakberdayaanku nanti, dan jangan juga menjadi muak terhadapku.
Masih ingatkah engkau saat engkau masih kecil dan menginginkan balon?
Engkau terus menerus mengulangi kata-katamu dan terus meminta balon sampai engkau mendapatkan apa yang engkau mau.
Dan tolong mengertilah aromaku yang sudah tua ini. Tolong jangan paksa aku untuk mandi, karena aku mungkin akan terlalu tua untuk berdiri dan membuka keran air dan memakai sabun. Tubuhku terlalu lemah. Sebab orang tua akan mudah sakit bila merasa kedinginan. Ku harap aku gak akan membuatmu rishi ataupun malu mengurusku.
Masih ingatkah engkau saat engkau masih kecil?
Aku dulu harus berkejar-kejaran denganmu di dalam rumah hanya untuk memandikanmu. Kuharapkan engkau kan tabah mengurusku. Itulah resiko menjadi tua. Engkau pun nanti akan mengerti saat usiamu bertambah tua.
Dan bila engkau punya waktu luang, kuharap kita bisa bicara-bicara berdua lebih lama. Sebab di usiaku yang tua, aku gak bakal punya siapa-siapa tempatku bercerita, aku kan ditinggalkan sendirian. Aku tahu engkau akan sibuk dengan pekerjaanmu. Dan meskipun ceritaku akan melantur dan gak masuk akal sehingga engkau gak tertarik mendengarnya, tolong tetaplah luangkan waktu untukku.
Masih ingatkah engkau saat engkau masih kecil?
Aku sering mendengarkan cerita-ceritamu tentang teddy bear. Dan aku gak pernah bosan mendengarmu bercerita tentang dunia khayalanmu meskipun bagiku itu gak masuk akal.
Dan bila saatnya tiba, dimana aku sakit dan harus terbaring di tempat tidur, ku harap engkau akan setia menjagaku. Maafkanlah aku bila aku harus buang air di tempat tidur dan membuat tidur menjadi kotor dan berantakan. Ku harapkan engkau akan sabar untuk mengurusku di jam-jam terakhir kehidupanku. Sebab aku gakkan mungkin bertahan selamanya.
Engkau mungkin gak mengingatnya waktu engkau masih bayi, tapi gak terhitung malam-malam dimana aku terjaga saat engkau menangis karena pampersmu basah, ataupun karena engkau haus dan lapar. Aku dengan setia bergegas membantumu gak peduli sepanjang hari itu aku hanya punya 3 jam waktu istirahat saja.
Saat hari kematianku tiba, ku harap engkau akan menggenggam tanganku dan memberiku kekuatan untuk menghadapi kematian.
Dan janganlah khawatir,… saat aku bertemu dengan Sang Pencipta, akan ku bisikan di telinga-Nya untuk memberkatimu, anakku. Sebab engkau telah begitu berbakti dan mengasihi orang tuamu….
Terima kasih banyak untuk perhatianmu, kesabaranmu dan kasihmu!
Dari orang tua yang selalu menyayangimu!
Demikian nasihat dan wasiat orang tua kepada anaknya agar kelak dapat menjadi anak yang soleh dan solehah. Ingat selalu kebaikan dan didikan orangtua kepada anaknya agar tidak menjadi anak durhaka kepada anaknya.
in english:
testament to the wise advice of parents to their children to become pious children
Parental wise advice to children is the most beneficial inheritance for children in interpreting the meaning of their lives so that they become children who are pious and devoted to their parents, with loving care parents also provide advice and wills for their children so that they are not rebellious children to their parents who have educate and raise their children until the end of their lives tirelessly.
in the mortal world to eternal eternal life.
This is an exemplary story of the life journey of parents both mother and father who crave children
Let us learn from the stories of people who have previously been made t
eladan in life to be able to serve both parents, father and mother. The following are expressions of wise words and aphorisms and advice messages in the will of parents to their children so as not to repeat stories - stories of rebellious children to parents (mother and father);
My child, When I get older, I hope you will understand and be patient with me. If I just broke the plate, or spewed soup on the table because I lost my vision, I hope you don't shout at me, or yell at me. Because the parents are so sensitive, they will easily feel sorry for themselves when they are scolded.
When my hearing began to deteriorate and I no longer heard what you said, I hope you don't call me: Deaf! just repeat what you want to say, or write it down on a piece of paper so I can understand.
Forgive me, my child
because it's not my fault if I'm getting older and weaker.
When my knees start to tremble easily, I hope you are patient enough to help me stand up. Just like I used to do to you, helping you walk when you were little, teaching you how to walk.
Please be patient with me, when I keep repeating the word over and over, I hope you don't get bored listening to my words later.
Please don't make fun of my weaknesses and powerlessness later, and don't also become fed up with me.
Do you still remember when you were little and wanted a balloon?
You keep repeating your words and keep asking for balloons until you get what you want.
And please understand my old scent. Please don't force me to take a shower, because I might be too old to stand up and open the tap and use soap. My body is too weak. Because parents will easily get sick if they feel cold. I hope I won't make you rishi or embarrassed to take care of me.
Do you still remember when you were little?
I used to have to chase you in the house just to bathe you. I hope you will take care of me. That's the risk of getting old. You will also understand when you get older.
And if you have free time, I hope we can talk together for longer. Because at my old age, I won't have anyone to tell me, I'm left alone. I know you will be busy with your work. And even though my story will wander and make no sense so you are not interested in hearing it, please keep taking time for me.
Do you still remember when you were little?
I often hear your stories about teddy bears. And I never get tired of hearing you talk about your imaginary world even though it doesn't make sense to me.
And if the time comes, where I am sick and have to be bedridden, I hope you will be faithful to take care of me. Forgive me if I have to poop in my bed and make my bed dirty and messy. I hope you will be patient to take care of me in the last hours of my life. Because I make it last forever.
You may not remember it when you were a baby, but not countless nights where I was awake when you cried because your pampers were wet, or because you were thirsty and hungry. I faithfully rushed to help you not care that all day I only had 3 hours of rest.
The day my death arrived, I hope you will hold my hand and give me the strength to face death.
And don't worry, "when I meet with the Creator, I will whisper in His ear to bless you, my child. Because you have been so devoted and love your parents.
Thank you very much for your attention, your patience and love!
From parents who always love you!
Such is the advice and will of parents to their children so that they can become pious and pious children. Remember always the kindness and upbringing of parents to their children so that they are not rebellious children to their children.
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