Dalam hubungan suami dan istri yang mesti kita jaga adalah hati suami dan istri kita...
Untuk para wanita,jika kalian ingin suami kalian memberikan semua uang hasil dagangnya atau uang hasil cari duitnya dalam sehari,maka buatlah nyaman hati suami kalian.
Buatlah hati suami kalian senang,gak muluk muluk,biar suami kalian senang mah,tinggal kalau kalian lihat suami kalian baru pulang dagang atau pulang nyari duit..
Kalian bikinin tuh suami kalian kopi sama kasih rokok..
Terus tanya capek gak mas??
Beuhh jika sikap kalian terhadap suami kalian begitu,maka di jamin,suami kalian bakalan ngasih semua uang yang ia dapatkan dalam sehari buat kalian.
Uang yang tadinya di umpetin juga bakalan dia kasih buat kalian...
Jadi intinya,kalian harus bisa buat hati suami kalian merasa adem dan tenang....
Jika suatu waktu suami kalian pulang dagang atau pulang nyari duit dan ngasih duitnya sedikit,
Jangan pernah bilang uang segini mana cukup?!
Cukup buat apaan?!
Karena harus kalian ketahui,yang namanya seorang suami juga keinginannya dapetin uang sebanyak banyaknya..
Tapi apa boleh buat yang namanya juga rejeki alloh yang mengatur,jadi suami kalian hanya bisa dapet segitu..
Itu juga tidak setiap hari bukan?
Ada pasang surutnya...
Yang harus kalian ketahui,suami itu paling merasa adem dan senang,jika dia mendengar istrinya bilang,
Ya gak apa apa mas,namanya juga orang dagang,ada ramenya dan ada sepinya..
Udah gak apa apa mungkin rejeki yang kita dapat hari ini memang segini..
Beuuuhhhh...
Kalau kalian kaya begini sama suami kalian,di jamin,suami kalian bakalan merasa menjadi orang paling beruntung dan paling bahagia
Karena bisa punya seorang istri yang dewasa dalam berpikir dan mengerti kondisi suami...
Kalian bisa menjaga hati suami kalian dan kalian bisa membuat adem hati suami kalian.
Ingat jika kalian sudah bisa memahami dan mengerti hati suami kalian,insya alloh,
Suami kalian akan selalu melakukan yang terbaik,
Karena yang harus kalian ketahui,jika kalian lemah lembut terhadap suami kalian,maka suami kalian akan lebih menyayangi kalian.
Dan akan berbuat apapun untuk membuat hati kalian bahagia jadi ada semacam timbal balik.
Jika kalian bisa menjaga dan membuat hati suami kalian merasa adem dan tenang,maka suami kalian akan berusaha semaksimal mungkin untuk buat hati istrinya bahagia.
Namun jika sikap kalian keras dan tidak bisa menjaga hati suami kalian,supaya hati suami kalian merasa tenang dan damai,
maka suami kalian juga tidak akan pernah buat hati kalian merasa bahagia...
Semakin kalian bersikap dan berkata kasar kepada suami kalian,maka suami kalian bakalan,acuh dan masa bodoh terhadap kalian.
Tapi jika kalian bersikap lemah lembut,dan berkata kata halus dan sopan kepada suami kalian,
Maka suami kalian bakalan luluh hatinya dan akan selalu berupaya untuk membahagiakan hati kalian istrinya.
Jadi yang harus di jaga dalam hubungan suami dan istri adalah hatinya.
Jika kita bisa saling menjaga hati dan perasaan suami dan istri kita maka akan terciptalah kerukunan dalam berumah tangga kita.
In english ::::::::
🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏 ___ assallaamualaikum ....__ 🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏
In a husband and wife relationship, what we must protect is the hearts of our husbands and wives ...
For women, if you want your husband to give all the money he trades or the money he earns in a day, then make your husband comfortable.
Make your husband's heart happy, not grandiose, so that your husband is happy, if you see your husband has just returned from trading or has come home looking for money ..
You guys make coffee and give cigarettes to your husbands ...
Keep asking, are you tired, bro ??
Beuhh if your attitude towards your husband is like that, then guaranteed, your husband will give you all the money he gets in a day for you.
He will also give the money that he used to hide for you...
So in essence, you have to be able to make your husband's heart feel cool and calm ....
If one day your husband comes home from trading or comes home looking for money and gives a little money,
Don't you ever say which kind of money is enough ?!
Enough for what ?!
Because you have to know, whose name is a husband, he also wants to get as much money ...
But is it permissible for those whose names are also fortune, Allah is responsible, so that your husbands can only get that much ..
It's also not everyday right?
There are ups and downs ...
What you should know, the husband feels the most cool and happy, if he hears his wife say,
Yes, it's okay, bro, his name is also a tradesman, there is ramen and it is lonely ...
It's okay, maybe the fortune we get today is like this ...
Beuuuhhhh ...
If you are like this with your husband, you can guarantee that your husband will feel like he is the luckiest and happiest person
Because you can have a wife who is mature in thinking and understanding the condition of her husband ...
You can take care of your husband's heart and you can cool your husband's heart.
Remember if you are able to understand and understand your husband's heart, God willing,
Your husband will always do his best,
Because what you have to know, if you are gentle with your husband, then your husband will love you more.
And will do anything to make your heart happy so there is some kind of reciprocity.
If you can take care and make your husband's heart feel cool and calm, then your husband will do his best to make his wife's heart happy.
But if your attitude is tough and you can't protect your husband's heart, so that your husband's heart will feel calm and peaceful,
then your husband also will never make your heart feel happy ...
The more you behave and say harshly to your husband, the more your husband will be, indifferent and indifferent to you.
But if you are gentle, and say soft and polite words to your husband,
Then your husband will melt his heart and will always try to make your wife happy.
So what must be guarded in the relationship between husband and wife is the heart.
If we can protect the hearts and feelings of our husbands and wives, harmony will be created in our household.
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