dibalik laki laki tangguh terdapat wanita yang tangguh

Kedewasaan laki-laki itu bisa di lihat dari seberapa jauh dia mengenal tuhannya,yakni alloh swt,karena yang kita tahu,setelah berumah tangga,mana mungkin  kita minta uang atau minta segala yang kita inginkan kepada orang tua kita,jelas malu atuh...

mungkin waktu kecil mah kita  bebas mau minta apa saja ke mama dan bapak kita,namun setelah dewasa,dan berumah tangga,hidupmu tergantung kakimu melangkah,

kamu benar-benar sendirian menghadaqpi persoalan dalam hidup.

bukan hanya dirimu saja yang kamu bawa setelah berumah tangga,namun istrimu juga anakmu menjadi tanggung jawabmu.

tidak ada yang bisa menolong  dan  membantumu selain kamu menggantungkan hidupmu hanya kepada alloh swt,karena ALLOH SWT lah yang memberi rezeki kita semua.

ALLOH SWT lah yang memelihara kita,menyayangi kita,jadi teringat,pernah tidak kalian  berpikir,kenapa para nabi dan wali memiliki kelebihan  yang tidak di miliki  oleh orang lain?

itu  karena para nabi dan wali sering mengingat dan mendekatkan diri kepada alloh swt.

makanya ALLOH SWT  memberi kelebihan dan di angkat derajatnya,bahasa logikanya begini,kalian punya anak 5,tentu kalian sangat menyayangi mereka semua,tapi pasti ada yang lebih kalian sayangi dan istimewakan 1 di antara 5 tersebut.,yaitu yang lebih dekat dengan kalian bukan?

yang selalu bersama kalian ,menemani kalian.seperti itulah ALLOH SWT  melebihkan para nabi dan wali dari manusia kebanyakannya,dikarenakan kedekatannya dengan ALLOH SWT,di ikut sertakannya ALLOH SWT dalam keseharian kita.

sedang kedewasaan seorang wanita itu bisa di lihat dari bagaimana dia mengurus anak-anaknya,menyayangi anak-anaknya,mendidik anak-anaknya,juga keikutsertaan  dalam membantu suami,mendampingi suami,di saat suami saat dalam keadaaan senang maupun susah.

ketika seorang suami sedang ngedown,istrilah yang memberikan spirit buat suami agar mau bangkit dari keterpurukan,hingga sang suami bisa bangkit kembali,dan membawa kesejahteraaan dan ketenangan kepada anak dan istri.

in english:

Man's maturity can be seen from how far he knows his god, that is Allah Almighty, because what we know, after settling down, where might we ask for money or ask for everything we want to our parents, obviously embarrassed ...

maybe when we were little we were free to ask anything to our mom and dad, but after growing up, and getting married, your life depends on your foot stepping,

You really are alone in the problem of life.

not only you take it after you settle down, but your wife and your child are your responsibility.

nothing can help and help you besides you depend your life only on Allah Almighty, because ALLOH SWT gives us all the sustenance.

God Almighty is the one who cares for us, loves us, so it remembers, you never thought, why do prophets and guardians have advantages that others do not have?

that is because the prophets and guardians often remember and draw closer to Allah SWT.

so ALLOH SWT gives advantages and is elevated, his logic is like this, you have 5 children, of course you really love them all, but there must be more you care about and privilege 1 of the 5, which is closer to you right?

who is always with you, accompanying you. That is how ALLOH SWT exaggerates the prophets and guardians of most humans, because of their proximity to ALLAH SWT, the involvement of ALLOH SWT in our daily lives.

while a woman's maturity can be seen from how she takes care of her children, loves her children, educates her children, also participates in helping her husband, accompanying her husband, when the husband is in good and difficult circumstances.

when a husband is dancing, his wife who gives spirit to her husband wants to rise from adversity, so that the husband can rise again, and bring welfare and calm to the child and wife.