HINDARI YANG NAMANYA PERCERAIAN....!!!
Wahai manusia...
Sesulit apapun hidup kalian bersama suami atau istri kalian,sekeras apapun ujian yang datang kepada bahetera rumah tangga kalian...
Janganlah sampai membuat kalian berpisah dengan suami atau istri kalian.
Karena jika kalian berpisah atau bercerai dengan suami atau istri kalian yang sengsara adalah anak anak kalian.
Karena nantinya jika kalian bercerai otomatis kalian akan punya suami atau istri baru bukan?
Nah sedangkan anak kalian nantinya akan merasa kagok dengan bapak atau ibunya yang baru...
Sedang kalian sendiri,nantinya sama ,mau merawat anak kalian kagok sama istri atau suami kalian.
Kalau kalian wanita,kalian takut gak di ijinin sama suami kalian yang baru,jika kalian pria,kalian tahu nantinya istri kalian lah yang akan mengatur keungan keluarga kalian.
Kalau istri baru kalian sholeh dan sayang sama anak kalian mah masih mending,bagaimana kalau istri baru kalian tidak menyukai anak kalian??
Jadi nantinya anak anak kalianlah yang akan mengalami kesengsaraan karena perpisahan atau perceraian kalian dengan suami atau istri kalian.
Mungkin kalau masih kecil,belum terasa,tapi kelak ketika anak kalian sudah beranjak besar dan tumbuh menjadi seorang pemuda atau pemudi..
Saat itulah anak kalian mulai merasakan kebingungan siapa yang akan menjadi panutannya...
Sehingga akhirnya anak kalian menjadi "broken home",
Dan yang namanya perceraian itu sangat di benci oleh alloh swt...!
Karena akan membawa dampak bagi kehidupan generasi berikutnya.
Oleh karena itu sebisa mungkin pertahankanlah rumah tangga kalian,lihatlah anak anak kalian...
Jangan kalian melihat diri kalian sendiri,lihatlah masa depan anak anak kalian...
Bagaimana nasib anak anak kalian jika kalian cerai?
Dengan siapa anak kalian akan ikut?
Siapa yang akan merawat dan mendidik anak kalian?
Pikirkanlah baik baik...
Lebih baik sekuat hati mempertahankan bahtera rumah tangga dengan suami istri kita,walau kondisi keuangan pas pasan.
Masalah uang masih bisa di usahakan bareng bareng....!
Ingat jangan saling mengandalkan,istri mengandalkan pemasukan dari suami.
Tapi di jaman sekarang itu kita harus bisa bersama sama bekerja mencari pundi pundi rupiah demi kelangsungan hidup keluarga kita,
Demi anak anak kita...demi masa depan anak anak kita...karena kalau bukan kita yang mengarahkan dan mendidik anak kita,
Siapa lagi yang mau mendidik anak kita?
In english :
💁💁💁💂 ___ assallaamualaikum ....__ 💁💂💂💂
AVOID THE NAME OF A Divorce.
O people...
No matter how difficult your life is with your husband or wife, no matter how hard the test comes to your household ...
Don't make you separate from your husband or wife.
Because if you separate or divorce your husband or wife who is miserable are your children.
Because later when you get divorced you will automatically have a new husband or wife, right?
Now, while your children will feel confused with their new father or mother ...
While you, yourself, will be the same, want to take care of your children, confused with your wife or husband.
If you are a woman, you are afraid that your new husband will not give you permission, if you are a man, you will know that your wife will manage the finances of your family.
If your new wife is pious and loves your child, it's still better, what if your new wife doesn't like your child ??
So later on your children will experience misery because of your separation or divorce from your husband or wife.
Maybe if you are still small, you won't feel it, but later when your child has grown up and grows up to be a young man or woman ..
That's when your child begins to feel confused about who will be his role model ...
So that in the end your child becomes a "broken home",
And the name of divorce is hated by Allah SWT ...!
Because it will have an impact on the lives of the next generation.
Therefore, as much as possible maintain your household, look at your children ...
Don't you look at yourself, look at the future of your children ...
What will happen to your children if you divorce?
Who will your child be with?
Who will care for and educate your children?
Think carefully ...
It is better to have a strong heart to defend the household ark with our husband and wife, even though the financial condition is just barely enough.
Money problems can still be worked on together ....!
Remember don't rely on each other, wives rely on income from their husbands.
But in today's world we must be able to work together to find rupiah coffers for the survival of our families,
For the sake of our children ... for the future of our children ... because if it was not us who directed and educated our children,
Who else wants to educate our children?
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