Jika istri kita tak patuh terhadap perintah kita suaminya

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JIKA ISTRIMU TIDAK MAU NURUT SAMA PERINTAH DAN OMONGAN KALIAN SUAMINYA....

 

wahai kaum adam....

Kita sebagai seorang laki laki pasti sangat menginginkan punya istri yang nurut sama omongan dan perintah kita bukan?

Namun jika keadaanya berbanding terbalik dengan apa yang kita inginkan...

Kita malah mendapatkan atau mempunyai istri yang tidak mau nurut sama perintah kita,

Maka apa yang harus  kita perbuat??

Yang pertama,kita harus ngaji dulu diri kita,apakah selama ini kita sudah mentaati  dan melakukan perintah alloh?

Dengan mendirikan sholat yang lima waktu di awal waktu....?

Dan apakah selama ini kita telah melakukan semua kewajiban kita sebagai seorang suami?

Jika kita sudah merasa kewajiban kita sudah kita lakukan,tapi istri kita masih tidak patuh dan tidak mau nurut sama omongan kita.

Yang harus kalian ketahui,yang namanya seorang istri itu adalah cerminan diri kita sendiri.

Jika sifat dan tingkah laku istri kita suka becanda,itu karena kita suaminya juga senang becanda,

Begitupun sebaliknya,jika istri kita orangnya pemarah dan mudah tersinggung,

Itu karena kita suaminya adalah seorang tempramental...

Mudah naik darah...

Karena biar bagaimanapun juga kita adalah imam bagi istri kita,

Dan namanya imam pasti akan selalu jadi contoh buat makmumnya...

Hahahahaha...jadi kahade we kudu alus kalakuan teh ari hareupeun pamajikan  jeung budak mah...tembongkeun anu hade hadena we...

Anu kalakuan gorengna mah ulah di tembongkeun kan bahaya engkena mun di turutan ku nu jadi pamajikan jeung budak.

Oke balik lagi ke topik bahasan,

Jadi jika kita telah  memenuhi kewajiban kita sebagai seorang suami,

Namun istri kita tetap tidak mau menuruti perintah dan omongan kita..

Coba sebisa mungkin,kita arahkan istri kita agar mau sholat..

Karena kebanyakan rata rata para istri yang tidak nurut sama perintah suami nya adalah istri yang gak pernah sholat!

Kalian pikir aja sendiri,sholat itu bukankah perintah alloh swt?

Perintah alloh bukan?

Jadi jika istri kita tidak pernah sholat,maka jangan harap istri kita mau menuruti perintah dan omongan kita suaminya.

Karena perintah alloh saja ia berani melawan dan tidak lakukan,apalagi perintah kita yang sebatas suaminya...

Jadi hal yang harus kita lakukan adalah mengarahkan istri kita,agar mau sholat terlebih dahulu.

Beda loh hawanya jika kita punya istri yang rajin sholat sama yang gak pernah sholat.

Jika kita punya istri yang rajin sholat itu bisa memberikan kepada kita kedamaian dalam hati kita.

Ketika kita punya masalah,istri kita bisa ngasih solusi yang bikin adem kana hate...

Jika kita berdagang,dapet uang banyak istri kita bakalan mengucapkan syukur,

Namun jika dapat sedikit istri kita selalu bilang sabar aja ya mas,namanya juga orang dagang,

Kan enak tuh kita dengernya...

Beda sama istri yang tidak pernah sholat,hawanya itu selalu panas...

Kalau kita dekat dengan istri kita,tuh hawanya pengen berantem mulu..

Ada we masalah yang harus di bikin debat.

Hal sepele juga bisa menjadi masalah besar...

Apalagi kalau kita kurang ngasih duit hasil dagang...

Bilangnya duit segini cukup buat apaan....??

Eeeeeetttt daaah si oncom, ngamuk ngamuk kaya gunung bromo sedang meletus...duaaarrrrr.....hahahahaha...

Jadi jika kita menyuruh istri kita supaya patuh terhadap perintah alloh swt,dengan mendieikan sholat yang lima waktu di awal waktu,

Maka timbal baliknya  alloh bakalan menundukan hati istri kita supaya patuh terhadap perintah kita suaminya.

Namun jika istri kita tetap tidak mau untuk sholat,maka tinggalkanlah ia,karena istri yang tidak pernah sholat bakalan menyeret kita kedalam jurang kesengsaraan dalam hidup.

Baik masih di dunia maupun nanti di akherat kelak.

Jadi nantinya yang di utamakan oleh istri kita hanyAlah uang ,uang, dan uang...

Istri kita bakalan menuntut terus menerus kita suaminya untuk memberikan apa yang ia inginkan,

Tapi sikap istri kita ke kita suaminya  masa bodoh,cuek,gak peduli,istilahnya bisa di bilang sama uangnya mau,tapi sama orang yang nyari duitnya gak merhatiin,

Masa bodoh,gak peduli,dan acuh.

Jadi jika kita merasakan hal seperti itu,lebih baik kita tinggalkan saja istri yang model macam begitu,

Yang utama nya sih yang gak pernah mau sholat!

Jika istri kita udah gak pernah sholat,udah tinggalkan aja,masih banyak cewek yang bisa bikin hidup kita bahagia...

Kita tinggalkan saja istri yang punya sifat kaya gitu,gak pernah sholat,gak mau nurut sama perintah kita suaminya,uang dari kita mau,

Tapi sikapnya ke kita cuek dan gak ada perhatiannya sama sekali.

Jadi buat apa kalau kita punya istri yang seperti demikian?

Bukankah kita ingin merasakan  bahagia bukan?

Ingin bisa merasakan ketenangan  dan ketentraman dalam mengarungi  bahtera rumah tangga bukan?

In english :::::::::

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IF YOUR WIFE DOESN'T WANT TO COME WITH THE COMMANDS AND THE GRAVELY OF YOUR HUSBAND ....

O men ....

We as men would really want to have a wife who obeys our words and orders, right?

But if the situation is inversely related to what we want ...

We even get or have wives who do not want to obey our orders,

So what should we do?

First, we have to recite ourselves first, have we been obeying and doing Allah's orders all this time?

By establishing the five prayers at the beginning of the time ....?

And have we been doing all our duties as husbands all this time?

If we feel we have done our duty, but our wives are still disobedient and don't want to obey what we say.

What you have to know, whose name is a wife is a reflection of ourselves.

If the nature and behavior of our wives like to joke, it is because our husbands also like to joke,

Likewise, if our wife is angry and easily offended,

It's because we husbands are temperamental ...

Easy to get angry ...

Because after all we are priests to our wives,

And the name of the priest will always be an example for his congregation ...

Hahahahaha ... so kahade we must try to do tea from hareupeun pamajikan jeung slave mah ... tembongkeun anu hadw hadena we ...

If you know that you are fried, it's dangerous because you become a slave jeung.

Okay, back to the topic,

So if we have fulfilled our obligations as husbands,

But our wives still don't want to obey our orders and what we say ...

Try as much as possible, we direct our wives to want to pray ..

Because most of the wives who do not obey the commands of their husbands are wives who never pray!

You just think for yourself, prayer is not an order of Allah SWT?

Allah's orders, right?

So if our wives never pray, then don't expect our wives to obey our husband's orders and what we say.

Because of Allah's orders, he dared to fight back and did not do it, let alone our orders, who were limited to her husband ...

So what we have to do is direct our wives so that they want to pray first.

It's different if we have a wife who prays the same diligently and never prays.

If we have a wife who is diligent in praying, it can give us peace in our hearts.

When we have a problem, our wives can give us solutions that make it cool to hate ...

If we trade, get a lot of money, our wives will say thanks,

But if you get a little, our wives always say just be patient, bro, his name is also a tradesman,

It's delicious we hear it ...

It's different from a wife who never prays, the weather is always hot ...

If we are close to our wives, we want to fight again ..

There are issues that need to be debated.

Trifles can also become big problems ...

Especially if we don't give money from trading ...

You say this kind of money is enough for what ... ??

Eeeeeetttt daaah the oncom, raging raging like Mount Bromo is erupting ... two arrrrr ... hahahahaha ...

So if we tell our wives to obey Allah's orders, by praying five prayers at the beginning of time,

So in return, Allah will bow our wives' hearts to obey our commands, their husbands.

But if our wives still don't want to pray, then leave them, because wives who never pray will drag us into the abyss of misery in life.

Both still in the world and in the hereafter.

So in the future what our wives prioritize is only money, money, and money ...

Our wives will continually demand our husbands to give him what he wants,

But the attitude of our wives towards us, their husbands are ignorant, indifferent, do not care, the term can be said that the money wants, but the same people who are looking for money don't pay attention,

Ignorant, indifferent, and indifferent.

So if we feel like that, it's better if we just leave a wife who is such a model,

The main thing is those who never want to pray!

If our wives never pray, just leave, there are still many girls who can make our lives happy ...

We just leave the wife who has a rich nature, never pray, don't want to obey our husband's orders, we want money,

But his attitude to us is ignorant and doesn't pay attention at all.

So what if we have a wife like that?

Don't we want to be happy, don't we?

Want to be able to feel serenity and tranquility in navigating the household ark right?