🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏___ assallaamualaikum....__🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏
Berumah tangga itu perlu kesiapan mental yang kuat,dan fisik yang tangguh,juga pola pikir yang dewasa.
Kenapa jika kalian menginginkan punya keluarga sendiri,alias kalian sangat ingin berumah tangga,
Hal pertama yang harus kalian ketahui,namanya berumah tangga itu tidak segampang kita membalikan telapak tangan kita.
Di bilang susah da gak terlalu susah,
Di bilang gampang da memang rada susah...
Susahnya apa coba,susahnya itu menyatukan tujuan kita.
Karena kita di pertemukan saat kita sudah dewasa,oleh karena itu perlu waktu lama dan proses yang gak sebentar buat kita bisa saling memahami karakter pasangan kita masing masing.
Saat menikah dan usia pernikahan kita masih satu bulan dan tiga bulan,itu mah pas lagi enak enaknya kita berumah tangga.
Saat usia pernikahan hitungan bulan,seorang wanita akan mengalah duluan,
Maksudnya apa?
Maksudnya kita di jadikan raja oleh istri kita.
Namun seiring waktu berlalu,setahun dua tahun dan tiga tahun berlalu,barulah nampak sifat dan kepribadian asli pasangan kita...
Jika dulu sewaktu pacaran,kita kalau di tawari makan sama pacar kita,kita makan dengan sedikit sedikit dan unyu unyu...hahahaha
Namun ketika kita sudah berumah tangga,kita makan main habek main hajar aja tuh nasi...rewog cenah hahahha
Jika dulu ketika kita pacaran,kita pengen kentut aja di tahan tahan....
Namun setelah menikah,baik kita maupun istri kita,kentut tuh sembarangan banget....!
Kita lagi makan ,duuuttt....hahahhaa...
Si oncom kagak sopan kentut di depan orang lagi makan,
Dia lalu bilang,biar gak sopan juga kamu tetap suka kan sama lubangnya hahahahahaha...
Ya udah dah gak bisa ngomong kalau gitu mah....
Pokoknya rasa malu itu sudah gak ada,yang ada adalah kita sudah saling mengerti dan sudah biasa dengan hal hal yang biasa istri atau suami kita lakukan.
Pada saat usia pernikahan tiga tahun masalah itu muncul,sifat dan karakter kita yang asli mulai terlihat,yang baiknya maupun kebiasaan buruk kita telah nampak oleh suami atau istri kita..
Nah tahu gak yang paling parah ujian dalam rumah tangga adalah ketika usia pernikahan kita lima tahun.
Di saat usia pernikahan kita sudah menginjak lima tahun yang di rasa paling berat dan paling parah,
Parahnya kenapa?
Disaat usia lima tahun inilah kita dan istri kita pada pada egois dan pada pada bedegong!
Suami ataupun istri gak mau mengalah...
Begini loh,tujuan kita itu sebenarnya sama,ingin bahagia dalam berumah tangga,
Namun cara yang di tempuh untuk mencapai kebahagiaan itulah yang berbeda,
Si suami menginginkan untuk mencapai kebahagiaan adalah dengan cara dirinya,
Dan si istri pun sama,gak mau mengalah,ingin cara dirinyalah yang di pakai buat mencapai kebahagiaan tersebut....!!!
Nah sampai sampai dulu saya dan istri saya hampir hampiran mau pisah....
Tapi gening alhamdulillah alloh masih memanjangkan jodoh saya dengan istri saya...
San saya pun kembali dengan istri saya...
Padahal pada saat itu saya dan istri saya sudah tidak serumah,dan saya berada di perantauan.
Saya sudah hampir setahun kurang tiga bulan tidak pernah bertanya kabar dengan istri saya...
Ada perasaan hampa...dan hambar....ketika saya tidak bisa berkomunikasi dengan istri saya...
Tapi semua itu tetap saya jalani dan saya tetap berusaha dan berdoa,
Ya alloh jika memang istri saya masih menjadi jodoh saya dan masih menjadi yang terbaik buat saya,
Maka dekatkanlah saya kepada istri saya kembali,
Namun jika kami sudah tidak berjodoh,maka tunjukanlah wanita yang terbaik buat hamba...
Gak tahu darimana jalannya dan bagaimana ceritanya,
Pada saat itu istri saya merantau ke daerah tanggerang,menjadi seorang pembantu rumah tangga..
Darimana saya tahu,dari email yang dipakai oleh istri saya di hp android istri saya.
Jadi hp android yang di pakai istri saya itu memakai email saya.
Jadi,
Saya lacak keberadaan istri saya...
Ada diman istri saya,setelah tahu ada di kota tangerang,lalu saya cari di mbah google,angkutan umum yang ke arah tanggerang naik mobil apa saja,
Setelah tahu,
Kemudian saya besok nya bersiap pergi. Ke tangerang,kemudian saya nyampai ke tempat lokasi dimana istri saya bekerja.
Padahal pada saat itu istri saya tidak mengetahui saya akan datang ke tempat kerjanya..
Tapi walau saya jarang kemana mana,ya karena saya setiap hari hanya dagang dagang dan dagang...
Tapi sekalinya saya keluar cari alamat,alhamdulillah selalu ketemu.
Dan pada saat saya bertemu dengan istri saya,istri saya kaget,ko saya bisa tahu alamat dia bekerja.
Saya diam aja.
Hari pertama ketemu saya di biarin,ya udah daripada diem aja saya kasih duit saja hasil dari saya berdagang selama 5 hari,
Dan istri saya menerimanya....
Setelah itu,hampir setiap tiga hari sekali saya mengunjungi istri saya ke tangerang...
Hingga akhirnya hati istri saya bisa luluh kembali...hahhaahahaha....
*Jadi curhat cenah urang..,*
In english :;;;;
🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏 ___ assallaamualaikum ....__ 🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏
A household needs a strong mental readiness, and a strong physical, as well as a mature mindset.
Why if you want to have your own family, aka you really want to be married,
The first thing you should know, the name household is not as easy as we turn our palms.
They say it's hard and it's not too hard,
Saying it's easy and it's actually rather difficult ...
What's the trouble, it's hard to unite our goals.
Because we are brought together when we are adults, therefore it takes a long time and a process that is not short for us to be able to understand each other's character.
When we get married and our marriage age is still one month and three months, that's just the right time to feel good about being married.
When the age of marriage is months, a woman will give in first,
What does it mean?
It means that we are made kings by our wives.
But as time passed, a year two years and three years passed, only then appeared the true nature and personality of our partners ...
If in the past, when we were dating, if we were offered a meal with our boyfriend, we ate a little bit and was cute ... hahahaha
But when we are married, we eat, play habek, play hajar, just rice ... rewog cenah hahahha
If in the past when we were dating, we just wanted to fart on hold ...
But after getting married, both we and our wives, fart really carelessly ....!
We're eating, duuuttt .... hahahhaa ...
The oncom is not polite to fart in front of people eating,
He then said, let it be rude you still like the hole hahahahahaha ...
Yes, I can't say that already ...
The point is that there is no shame, what exists is that we already understand each other and are familiar with the things that our wives or husbands usually do.
At the age of three years of marriage the problem arises, our original character and character begin to appear, our good and bad habits have been seen by our husband or wife.
So you know, the worst test in the household is when our marriage is five years old.
At the age of our marriage, we have reached the age of five which feels the heaviest and the worst,
What's so bad?
It is at the age of five that we and our wives are on the egoist and on the king's side!
Husbands or wives don't want to budge ...
You see, our goal is actually the same, to be happy in a household,
But the way you take to achieve happiness is different,
The husband wants to achieve happiness is his way,
And the wife is the same, doesn't want to budge, wants her own way to be used to achieve that happiness .... !!!
So until before my wife and I almost wanted to separate ...
But gening, alhamdulillah, God still extends my soul mate with my wife ...
San I came back with my wife ...
Even though at that time my wife and I were not at home, and I was overseas.
I haven't asked my wife for almost a year less than three months ...
There is a feeling of emptiness ... and bland .... when I can't communicate with my wife ...
But all that I live and I keep trying and praying,
Yes God if indeed my wife is still my soul mate and is still the best for me,
So bring me closer to my wife again,
But if we are not matched, then show me the best woman for me ...
Do not know where the way is and how the story goes,
At that time my wife migrated to the area of Tanggerang, becoming a domestic helper ..
How do I know, from the email used by my wife on my wife's android cellphone.
So the android phone that my wife uses uses my email.
So,
I tracked my wife's whereabouts ...
Where is my wife, after finding out that she is in the city of Tangerang, then I searched on Google for public transportation that goes to Tangerang by any car,
After knowing,
Then I am getting ready to go tomorrow. To Tangerang, then I arrived at the location where my wife worked.
Even though at that time my wife did not know that I would come to work ..
But even though I rarely go anywhere, yes because I only trade trades and trades every day ...
But once I went out looking for an address, thank God I always found it.
And when I met my wife, my wife was surprised, how come I can know the address she works for.
I just kept quiet.
The first day I met I was let, yes, instead of just sitting there, I just gave money as a result of my trading for 5 days,
And my wife accepted it ....
After that, almost every three days I visit my wife to Tangerang ...
Until finally my wife's heart could melt again ... hahhaahahaha ....
* So confide in urang cenah .., *
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