Rasa curiga itu bisa buat kita down...!

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Rasa curiga itu bisa membuat kita menjadi kurang semangat dalam menjalani aktivitas kita.

Wahai manusia...

Yang namanya menjalin hubungan,kalau posisi kita jauh dari orang yang kita sayangi,

Pasti perasaan curiga akan selalu ada.itu wajar sekali,karena posisi kita yang jauh dari orang yang sangat kita sayangi.

Ada perasaan cemas,ada rasa was was...dan ada rasa takut kalau orang yang kita sayangi itu  selingkuh di belakang kita.

Kenapa kita bisa curiga?

Pertama karena rasa percaya kita kepada orang yang kita sayangi sudah mulai pudar...

Dan yang kedua,karena posisi kita jauh dari orang yang kita sayangi.

Misalkan kita suami nya curigaan mulu sama istri...

Itu karena kepercayaan kita kepada istri kita itu sudah memudar...

Jadi buat para istri,jika suami kalian mencurigai kalian,itu karena suami kalian  takut kehilangan kalian walau gak pernah ngomong langsung sama kalian.

Jaim saeutik hahahahaha...

Suami kalian itu gak mau kehilangan kalian dan sangat takut kalian melakukan hal hal yang suami kalian tidak inginkan contohnya kalian berselingkuh.

Karena suami kalian itu sangat sayang sama kalian walau jarang keluar ucapan sayang dari mulut suami kalian.

Jadi jika suami kalian curiga melulu sama kalian solusinya adalah jelaskan lah kepada suami kalian sedetil detilnya  tentang apa yang kamu lakukan dan apa yang kamu kerjakan sehingga suami kalian menaruh curiga sama kalian.

Dan yakinkan lah suami kalian bahwa kalian tidak akan berbuat macam macam.

Yakinkan,supaya suami kalian itu merasa adem dan yakin kalau kalian itu tidak melakukan hal hal yang tidak di inginkan seperti selingkuh di belakang suami kalian.

Jika kalian telah menjelaskan sedetail detailnya,tentang apa yang di curigai oleh suami kalian kepada kalian,yakin suami kalian gak akan curiga lagi.

Misalkan contoh.

Kalian bekerja menjadi pengasuh anak,tapi kalian harus mengasuh di rumah orang yang punya anak tersebut.

Nah biar suami kalian tenang dan damai hatinya gak banyak curigaan sama kalian.

Maka  jelaskan sama kalian,dimana lokasi rumah tempat kalian bekerja mengasuh anak dan kasih nomer hp orang yang nyuruh kalian bekerja, atau orang tua dari anak yang kalian asuh kepada suami kalian,

Biar kalau ada apa apa suami kalian bisa menghubunginya.

Yang harus kalian ketahui,jika suami kalian terus menerus di hinggapi perasaan curiga ,maka pikiran suami kalian  tidak akan bisa tenang.

Jika pikiran suami kalian tidak bisa tenang,maka mau cari duit juga gak bisa.

Jadi males cenah buat nyari duit,karena pikiran suami kalian lagi mumet.

Kalau suami kalian gak cari duit,otomatis suami kalian gak bakalan bisa ngasih duit buat resiko dapur kalian istrinya.

Tetap aja kan kalian sendiri yang rugi dan sama sama ikutan jadi pusing kepala..

In english ::::::

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This suspicion can make us less enthusiastic in carrying out our activities.

O people...

The name of a relationship, if our position is far from the people we love,

Surely the feeling of suspicion will always be there. That's very natural, because our position is far from the people we care about the most.

There is a feeling of anxiety, there is a sense of anxiety ... and there is a fear that the person we love is cheating behind our back.

Why should we be suspicious?

First, because our trust has begun to fade...

And secondly, because our position is far from the people we love.

Suppose our husband is suspicious of his wife...

That's because our trust in our wives has faded...

So for wives, if your husband suspects you, it's because your husband is afraid of losing you even though he has never spoken to you directly.

Jaim saeutik hahahahaha...

Your husband doesn't want to lose you and is very afraid of you doing things that your husband doesn't want for example you having an affair.

Because your husband loves you very much even though he rarely says affectionate words from your husband's mouth.

So if your husband is always suspicious of you, the solution is to explain to your husband in detail about what you did and what you did so that your husband would suspect you.

And assure your husband that you will not do anything like that.

Make sure, so that your husband feels cool and is sure that you are not doing things you don't want, such as cheating behind your husband's back.

If you have explained in detail, about what your husband suspects of you, I'm sure your husband will not suspect anymore.

Take an example.

You work as a babysitter, but you have to take care of the house of the person who has the child.

So, let your husband be calm and at peace, he won't have much suspicion of you.

Then explain to you, where is the location of the house where you work taking care of children and give the cellphone number of the person who told you to work, or the parents of the child you are taking care of to your husband,

So that if something goes wrong, your husband can contact him.

What you have to know, if your husband is constantly feeling suspicious, then your husband's mind will not be able to calm down.

If your husband's mind can't be calm, then you can't even make money.

So lazy to make money, because your husband's mind is busy.

If your husband is not looking for money, your husband will automatically not be able to give you money for your wife's kitchen risk.

Still, you're the one who loses and you're the same as getting dizzy..