Kenapa seorang suami terkadang suka menyembunyikan uang dari hasil usahanya dari istrinya...?
Wahai wanita...
Seorang suami bisa menurunkan ego nya itu bukan dengan cara bersikap kamu yang kasar.
Atau ucapan kamu(istrinya) yang kasar.juga tindakan kasar kamu dengan berani melawan suamimu.
Semakin kamu bersikap kasar dan berucap kasar sama suamimu,
Malah akan membuat suamimu semakin brutal dan kejam kepadamu.
Jadi cara untuk meluluhkan dan menurunkan ego suami mu adalah dengan sikap lemah lembut mu wahai para istri...
Dengan sikap kamu yang lemah lembut terhadap suami kamu,itu akan meluluhkan hati suami kamu.
Sebajingan atau pun sebejat bejatnya suamimu,ia (suamimu),
Akan berlaku lemah lembut juga kepadamu istrinya.
Begitu pula dalam hal keuangan.
Kenapa seorang suami terkadang ngasih uang buat resiko sehari hari kamu gak semuanya di kasih?
Gak semua hasil yang suami kamu dapatkan gak di kasih sama kamu??
Dan sebagiannya ia pegang sendiri.
Itu karena sikap kamu lah yang keterlaluan kepada suami kamu sendiri.
Keterlaluan bagaiamana??
Di saat suami kamu minta uang sama kamu,
Kamu malah marah marah...
Kamu ngerebek terus,ngoceh terus,ngomel terus...
Di kasih enggak,hahahahahaha
Kalau di kasih pun paling dikit,misal suami minta uang 10 ribu,kamu kasih 5 ribu...
Padahal,uang yang kamu punya adalah hasil pemberian suami kamu.
Kamu itu egois dalam segi keuangan,ingin menang sendiri dan ingin enak sendiri..
Dan pelit sama keperluan dan apa yang di perlukan oleh suami kamu.
Itu kenapa,semakin hari,uang yang kamu terima yang di kasih oleh suami kamu semakin sedikit..
Karena suami kamu sudah paham dan sudah mengerti betul,
Daripada kudu minta duit sama kamu istrinya,yang membuat kamu jadi marah marah,mendingan sebagian aja di kasih ke kamunya,
Dan sebagian nya lagi ia simpan,buat keperluan ia sendiri.
Tapi jika kamu gak pelit,saat suami kamu minta uang sama kamu, maka di jamin,suami kamu juga gak bakalan menyembunyikan uang dari kamu.
Yang terpenting kamu harus ketahui,
Memang uang suami adalah uang istri,
Tapi uang istri adalah uang keluarga,termasuk di dalamnya ada bagian suami.
Itu baru adil.
Jangan pernah bilang,uang suami adalah uang istri,dan uang istri adalah uang istri,
Jika kalian bilang begitu,itu tandanya kamu adalah seorang istri yang egois dan serakah dalam hal keuangan.
Jadi intinya...
Baik seorang suami atau istri...harus bisa saling memahami dan bisa saling mengerti kondisinya masing masing.
Juga harus bisa silih anteurkeun kahayang.
Jika suami kamu minta uang sama kamu,kasih...!
Da suami oge minta uang sama kamu karena memang kondisi suami kamu lagi benar benar gak megang duit.
Da kalau suami kamu lagi pegang duit juga,pasti bakalan di kasih buat kamu ini bukan??
Jadi kita sebagai pasangan suami dan istri harus bisa saling....
Saling mengerti keadaan,saling mengerti kondisi keuangan masing masing,saling anterin keinginan masing masing.
Dan saling memahami bagaimana perasaan kita masing masing...baik perasaan si suami ataupun perasaan si istri.
In english ::::
🙏___ assalamualaikum....__🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏
Why does a husband sometimes like to hide money from the results he tries every day?
O woman...
A husband can lower his ego, not by being rude.
Or your words (his wife) are rude. Also your rude actions bravely against your husband.
The more you are rude and speak harshly to your husband,
In fact, it will make your husband even more brutal and cruel to you.
So the way to melt and lower your husband's ego is with your gentle attitude, O wives...
With your gentle attitude towards your husband, it will melt your husband's heart.
As bastard or as depraved as your husband, he (your husband),
He will be gentle with his wife too.
Likewise in terms of finances.
Why does a husband sometimes give money for your daily risks, you don't give everything?
Not all the results that your husband gets are not given to you??
And some of it he holds himself.
That's because your attitude is too much to your own husband.
How outrageous??
When your husband asks you for money,
You're even angry...
You keep on whining, keep on babbling, keep on nagging...
Did you give it, hahahahaha
Even if you give it at least a little, for example, your husband asks for 10 thousand, you give 5 thousand...
In fact, the money you have is the result of your husband's gift.
You are selfish in terms of finances, want to win yourself and want to feel good on your own..
And stingy with the needs and what your husband needs.
That's why, every day, the money you receive from your husband is getting less and less..
Because your husband already understands and has understood correctly,
Instead of having to ask your wife for money, which makes you angry, it's better if you give some of it to you,
And some of it he keeps, for his own purposes.
But if you are not stingy, when your husband asks you for money, then it is guaranteed that your husband will not hide money from you either.
Most importantly you should know,
Indeed, the husband's money is the wife's money.
But the wife's money is family money, including the husband's share.
That's just fair.
Never say, husband's money is wife's money, and wife's money is wife's money.
If you say so, it's a sign that you are a wife who is selfish and greedy in terms of finances.
So the point...
Either a husband or wife...must be able to understand each other and be able to understand each other's condition.
Also must be able to take turns anteurkeun kahayang.
If your husband asks you for money, love...!
Da Oge's husband asks you for money because your husband's condition is really not holding money.
And if your husband is still holding money too, surely this will be given to you right??
So we as husband and wife must be able to mutually...
Understand each other's circumstances, understand each other's financial condition, anterin each other's desires.
And understand each other how each of us feels...whether the husband's feelings or the wife's feelings.
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