istrimulah penggerak ekonomi keluargamu

keuangan keluarga biarlah istrimu yang mengaturnya.

keluaga adalah bagian terkecil dari sebuah negara.peranan seorang istri sangatlah besar bagi suatu keluarga.salah satu di antaranya adalah mengatur keuangan keluarga.biarlah suami yang mencari nafkah.dan istrilah yang mengaturnya.

Rusaknya suatu keluarga berarti sama dengan hancurnya suatu tatanan masyarakat.hancurnya suatu tatanan masyarakat itu sama dengan rusaknya suatu negara.

banyak sekali permasalahan di dalam hubungan rumah tangga antara suami dengan istrinya.yang paling utama adalah masalah ekonomi.

banyak sekali terjadi perceraian yang di sebabkan oleh masalah yang satu ini.

bukan karena ekonomi yang kurang,akan tetapi banyak sekali para istri yang mengeluh kalau uang keluarga di pegang sama suami mereka.

mereka mengatakan mereka jarang di kasih uang oleh suami mereka untuk berbelanja kebutuhan keluarga.kebutuhan keluarga di belanjakan oleh suami mereka.

mereka banyak mengeluh kenapa suami-suami mereka tidak mempercayai mereka istrinya untuk mengatur keuangan keluarga.

giliran uang yang di kelola suami habis ,istrilah yang sering di salahkan oleh sang suami,disangkanya istrilah yang telah menghambur-hamburkan uang hingga habis tak tersisa.

kenapa harus istri yang memgang kendali keuangan keluarga?

karena kalau istri punya uang itu untuk membahagiakan anak anak,juga untuk membelikan semua keperluan dan kebutuhan keluarga.berbeda kalau uang di atur  sama suami.

nantinya uang tidak jelas kemana keluarnya?padahal itu sudah di irit irit,tetap saja uang keluarnya tidak jelas.kalau uang laki yang megang,dimana ada temen yang datang pasti akan royal beli kopi lah ,beli rokok lah  juga tek tek bengeknya...

coba dah kalian bandingin sendiri,keluarga yang keuanganya di pegang sama suami mereka dengan keluarga yang keuangan keluarga yang di pegang oleh istri mereka.

pasti keuangan keluarga yang di pegang oleh istri lebih maju daripada keuangan keluarga yang di pegang oleh suami.

cara mengatur penghasilan 

nih ada cerita seorang teman mengatakan bahwa kalau sehari dia berpenghasilan seratus ribu,dia sakuin 10 ribu buat jaga jaga, nah yang 90 ribunya dia kasihin buat istrinya. khusus buat laki ni mah...(sssstttt...ini rahasia).

janganlah seorang suami mengatur sendiri keuangan nya sendirian.inget jangan kalian berpenghasilan 100 ribu tapi bilang ke istrimu kalau kalian hanya dapet uang cuma 40 ribu..

ya namanya istri mah pasti menerima saja berapapun yang di kasih suaminya(itu juga kalau istrinya yang sholehah)kalau istrinya tidak sholehah,bagaimana???

berarti anda kurang beruntung...(hahaaha)

jangan berbohong jika ingin kebarokahan menyertaimu dan keluargamu.

bukankah kalian cari uang buat bahagiain anak dan istri?

saran untuk kalian wahai kaum adam:

sekali lagi kejujuran dan saling percaya menjadi kunci kemakmuran dalam berumah tangga.

percayalah selagi istrimu melihat dirimu  dengan mata kepalanya sendiri  bersusah payah berusaha untuk menafkahinya.dia tidak akan berbuat menyimpang dan tidak akan selingkuh apalagi berbuat macam-macam di belakangmu.

yang harus kalian tahu ,yang namanya wanita itu sama,mau dari suku sunda ,jawa,batak,aceh ,bali ,jayapura,arab,inggris .

yaitu mereka selalu mengedepankan hati nurani mereka ketimbang pikiran mereka.

  kalian juga harus tahu sekali istrimu ngegerumel di dalam hati mereka,itu  sangat pengaruh dengan apa yang sedang kau kerjakan atau kau usahakan.


In English :

that is the driving force of your family's economy

by jilan fauzi on 12:09 AM

family finances let your wife manage it.

The family is the smallest part of a country. The role of a wife is very big for a family. One of them is managing the family finances. Let the husband make a living. And the wife controls it.

The destruction of a family means the same as the destruction of a social order. The destruction of a social order is the same as the destruction of a country.

There are so many problems in the household relationship between a husband and his wife. The main thing is economic problems.

There are so many divorces that are caused by this one problem.

not because of a lack of economy, but many wives complain that their husbands have the family's money.

They say they are rarely given money by their husbands to shop for family needs. Family needs are spent by their husbands. They complain a lot why their husbands don't trust their wives to manage family finances.

it is the turn of the money that the husband manages to run out, it is the wife who is often blamed by the husband.

why should the wife take control of the family finances?

because if the wife has the money to make the children happy, also to buy all the necessities and needs of the family. it's different if the money is managed by the husband. later the money is not clear where it goes out?

 even though it is already economical, it is still unclear if the money goes out. the money for the man who is holding, where there are friends who come, they will definitely buy coffee, buy cigarettes as well as tek tek bengek ...

try to match yourself, a family whose finances are held by their husbands with a family whose family finances are held by their wives.

surely the family finances held by the wife are more advanced than the family finances held by the husband.

how to set up income

Here is a story of a friend saying that if a day he earns one hundred thousand, he pockets 10 thousand just in case, now he gives 90 thousand to his wife. especially for men, mah ... (sssstttt ... this is a secret).

 Do not have a husband to manage his own finances alone. Remember don't you earn 100 thousand but tell your wife that you only get 40 thousand money ...

yes, her name is wife mah, you must accept whatever her husband loves (that is if his wife is pious) if his wife is not pious, how?

means you are out of luck ... (hahaaha)

Don't lie if you want happiness to be with you and your family.

Aren't you looking for money to make your children and wife happy?

advice for you guys:

once again honesty and mutual trust are the keys to prosperity in a household.

believe me while your wife sees you with her own eyes struggling to make ends meet. she will not deviate and will not cheat let alone do things behind your back.

What you have to know, whose name is the same woman, want from the Sundanese, Javanese, Batak, Aceh, Balinese, Javanese, Arabic, and English tribes.

that is, they always put their conscience ahead of their mind.

  You also have to know that once your wife grumbles in their hearts, it really influences what you are doing or working on.