KALAU ANAK KITA BERANTEM SAMA TEMANNYA

CARA MENYIKAPI ANAK KITA JIKA ANAK KITA BERTENGKAR DENGAN TEMANNYA.

Mungkin namanya anak kadang dalam bermain suka akur,atau biasa saja,terkadang anak kita suka berantem sama temannya,itu adalah hal wajar.

namanya anak-anak berantem hari ini,besoknya juga sudah akur lagi.tapi kalau sampai orang tuanya ikut-ikutan,nah itu lain ceritanya jadi panjang dah urusannya.

tapi yang harus di waspadai itu jika anak mengadu sama kita orang tuanya terus kita belain tuh anak kita,padahal kita belum tahu masalahnya apa atau gara-gara apa sehingga anak kita bertengkar.

kita tanyain dulu anak kita,kenapa kamu pakai berantem sama teman kamu?

nanti kan anak kita mulai cerita jelasin permasalahanya.nah kita selaku orang tua harus bijak menyikapi cerita anak kita,jika anak kitanya yang salah,bilang saja memang kamu yang salah nak..

besok lagi kamu jangan lakukan hal seperti itu tadi ya nak,peupeujeuh..!

jangan pernah kita belain anak kita sendiri,jika memang anak kita yang salah,karena nantinya anak kita akan berbuat salah lagi dan seneng bikin masalah sama orang,karena di pikiran si anak ,"ah..nanti juga bakalan  di belain lagi sama mama dan bapak.

begitu,jadi kita selaku orang tuanya jangan mentang kita orang kaya atau orang pejabat,terus anak kita melakukan kesalahan,lalu kita belain anank kita,nantinya kita sendiri (orang tuanya) yang di bikin susah sama kelakuan anak kita.

IN ENGLISH :

HOW TO TOWARD OUR CHILDREN IF OUR CHILDREN ARRANGE WITH HIS FRIENDS.

Maybe the name of the child sometimes plays well, or is normal, sometimes our child likes to fight with his friends, that is normal.

the names of the kids are fighting today, the next day they get along well again, but if their parents join in, well that's a different story so long and business.

but the thing to watch out for is if the child complains with us, our parents continue to defend our child, even though we don't know what the problem is or because of what caused our child to fight.

we first ask our child, why do you use to fight with your friends?

later our child will begin to explain the problem. Once we as parents must be wise in responding to our children's story, if our children are wrong, just say that you are the one who is wrong ..

tomorrow you don't do anything like that, kid, peupeujeuh!

we should never defend our own children, if indeed our children are wrong, because later our children will make mistakes again and are happy to cause problems with people, because in the mind of the child, "ah ... later also will be belain again with mom and dad .

so, so we as parents do not think we are rich or official, then our children make mistakes, then we believe our children, then we ourselves (parents) are made difficult by the behavior of our children.