KARAKTER ANAK SEBELUM BALIGH ITU CENDERUNG MENIRU IBUNYA..
Wahai manusia,yang namanya manusia lahir itu sama tidak bawa apa-apa alias telanjang keluar dari rahim ibu.
nah setelah si anak ini tumbuh dan beranjak gede bisa di bilang umurnya si anak antara 2 sampai 9 tahunan....
setelah saya perhatikan,ternyata anak seumuran 2 sampai 9 tahunan itu sifatnya dan tindak tanduknya itu condong meniru gaya ibunya..
dari cara berbicara kepada kita orang tuanya,maupun kepada teman seumurannya itu lebih condong meniru ala ibunya...
misalkan ibunya sering marah-marah,maka si anak itu pun secara tidak dia sadari sifat ibunya yang pemarah itu nempel dan melekat pada anaknya,
itu yang dinamakan dengan istilah buah jatuh tidak bakalan jauh dari pohonya.
jadi buat para ibu-ibu muda peupeujeuh kalian harus bisa lebih sabar dan pelan-pelan dalam berbicara dengan anak kalian...
jangan dikit-dikit marah ke anak,ngebentak kepada anak kalian...nantinya anak kalian itu dalam pergaulannya dengan teman-temannya itu akan jadi anak yang mudah tersulut dan mudah terbawa emosi padahal temen-temennya hanya bercanda.
In English :
CHILDREN'S CHARACTER BEFORE BALIGHTS TEND TO IMITATE ITS MOTHER ..
O people, whose names humans are born do not carry anything alias naked out of the mother's womb.
well after this child grows and grows up, you can say that the child's age is between 2 and 9 years old ...
After I noticed, it turned out that children aged 2 to 9 years old are in character and their behavior tends to imitate their mother's style.
from the way he talks to us, his parents, as well as to friends his age are more inclined to imitate his mother's style ...
Suppose the mother is often angry, then the child does not realize that the angry mother clings to her child,
that which is called the fallen fruit will not be far from the tree.
so for young mothers peupeujeuh you must be able to be more patient and slow in talking with your children ...
Don't be a little angry at the child, yell at your child ... later your child in his association with his friends will become a child who is easily ignited and easily carried away by emotions even though his friends are just kidding.
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