Jika anak kita melakukan suatu kesalahan ,jangan langsung kalian marahin abis abisan....!

💁💁💁💂___ assallaamualaikum....__💁💂💂💂

Jika anak kita melakukan suatu kesalahan ,jangan langsung kalian marahin abis abisan....!

Wahai wanita,wahai para ibu ibu muda...

Apabila anak kalian melakukan kesalahan janganlah langsung kalian marah marahin anak kalian.

Lihatlah dahulu apa yang menjadi penyebab anak kita melakukan kesalahan tersebut.

Semisal,

Anak kita sedang bermain,bercanda  sama adiknya,tiba tiba kakaknya menyenggol atau tidak sengaja menendang gelas yang di simpan di lantai.

Kemudian gelas tersebut pecah,

Yang harus kalian lakukan adalah janganlah kalian marah marahin anak kalian habis habisan hingga anak kalian sakit hatinya.

Ingat namanya seorang anak tetap masih punya hati,yang berfungsi pada anak anak adalah perasaannya...

Yang tidak ada pada anak anak adalah akal pikirannya belum berfungsi.

Akal pikirannya si anak bisa berjalan apabila si anak banyak nanya sama kita orang tuanya,

Lalu kita jawab,dan jawabanya itu benar dan membuat hati anak kita menjadi puas,

Dari situlah anak kita mulai berpikir rada dewasa....

Oke balik lagi ke topik bahasan.apabila kalian marah marahin anak kalian,anak kalian pasti gak berani untuk melawan,

Tapi yang jadi permasalahannya disini,kelak rasa sakit hati  yang anak kita rasakan akan ia pendam...

Lama kelamaan,anak kalian akan berubah menjadi anak yang tempramental,mudah tersinggung,mudah marah,

Karena seringnya kena marah marah oleh kalian ibunya...

Anak yang sering di marah marahin kelak ketika tumbuh dewasa akan menjadi anak yang tempramental,dikit dikit marah,mudah tersinggung....

Oleh karena itu jika anak kita melakukan kesalahan apapun itu,

Kasih tahu anak kita,ngomong kepada anak kita pelan pelan dan nada yang pelan...

Beritahu dengan cara kasih sayang,kita kepada anak kita,

Bilang ya udah nak,nanti lagi harus lebih hati hati lagi ya kalau main sama adik....

(Sambil gelas yang pecah tadi kalian pungutin ,bersihan bisa kacugak ku budak).

Jadi disini yang kita jaga adalah hati si anak,perasaannya si anak,

Karena suatu saat nanti ketika anak kita tumbuh menjadi orang dewasa dan kita menjadi kakek atau nenek nenek,

Lalu kita tak sengaja menyenggol piring sampai piring tersebut jatuh dan pecah,

Nantinya anak kita akan memperlakukan kita seperti kita pernah lakukan sama anak kita.

In english :

💁💁💁💂 ___ assallaamualaikum ....__ 💁💂💂💂

If our child does something wrong, don't immediately get angry with you ....!

O women, young mothers ...

If your child makes a mistake, don't immediately get angry with your child.

Look first at what causes our children to make these mistakes.

For example,

Our child was playing, joking with his younger sibling, suddenly his brother knocked or accidentally kicked the glass that was kept on the floor.

Then the glass broke,

What you have to do is don't get angry and angry with your child so much that your child hurts his heart.

Remember the name of a child still has a heart, what functions in children is their feelings ...

What is missing in children is that their minds have not yet functioned.

The child's mind can run if the child asks us a lot of parents,

Then we answer, and the answer is true and makes the hearts of our children become satisfied,

From there our children begin to think rather mature ...

Okay, back to the topic of discussion. If you are angry with your child, your child will definitely not dare to fight,

But the problem here is that someday the pain that our children will feel will be buried ...

Over time, your child will turn into a temperamental child, irritable, irritable,

Because often get angry with anger by you mothers ...

A child who is often angry with anger when growing up will become a temperamental child, a little angry, easily offended ...

Therefore if our child does anything wrong,

Tell our children, talk to our children slowly and in a low tone ...

Tell in a loving way, we to our children,

Tell me already, kid, later you have to be more careful when you play with younger siblings ....

(While you were picking up the broken glass, I could clean it up, I could not slave).

So here what we are guarding is the child's heart, the child's feelings,

Because someday when our children grow up to be adults and we become grandparents,

Then we accidentally bump into the plate until it falls and breaks,

Later our children will treat us like we have done with our children.