Sifat ,emosional dan watak juga cara ngomong anak sewaktu kecil,itu meniru sifat,emosional,watak juga cara ngomong ibunya.

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Sifat ,emosional dan watak juga cara ngomong anak sewaktu kecil,itu meniru sifat,emosional,watak juga cara ngomong ibunya.

Wahai manusia....


Wahai para ibu.... 

Harus kalian ketahui dan harus kalian sadari, yang namanya anak itu ibarat kertas putih, 

Kitalah selalu orang tuanya yang menjadikan anak anak kita mau jadi seorang nasrani ataupun yahudi, 

Atau kitalah selalu orang tuanya yang menjadikan sifat anak kita mau jadi anak yang baik atau pun anak yang nakal dan bandel. 

Ternyata, yang namanya seorang anak ketika belum baligh, 

Segala sesuatunya meniru ibunya. Dari mulai sifatnya, cara ngomongnya,

Jadi jika kalian sebagai bapak melihat ada yang aneh dan ada yang salah dengan sifat dan cara ngomongnya anak, 

Semisal anak kita masih kecil saja sudah berani melawan omongan kita orang tuanya... 

Berani ngomong yang nyelekit hati kita bapaknya, atas omongan anak anak kita. 

Kita sebagai bapak, jangan dulu menyalahkan si anak kita, karena sifatnya dan kelakuannya yang seperti itu. 

Karena sesungguhnya sifat dan cara ngomong anak kita kepada kita orang tuanya itu menirukan cara ibunya ngomong sehari hari.. 

Jadi jika anak kalian ngomongnya bawel dan cerewet, kalian jangan merasa aneh, karena omongan anak kalian itu niruin cara ngomong ibunya... 

Karena kita tahu sendiri, yang namanya anak kan sewaktu kecil selalu dekat sama ibunya... 

Jadi otomatis, kepribadian, karakter, dan cara ngomong si anak ini meniru apa yang di lihat nya dari mamahnya, meniru cara ngomong mamahnya karena sering dengerin mamahnya ngomong... Dan emosionalnya juga meniru dari mamahnya... 

Jadi kalian sebagai bapak jika melihat kelakuan anak kalian cerewet ngomongnya, berarti anak kalian meniru cara ngomong ibunya. 

Dan dari segi emosionalnya, seorang anak lebih condong nerap ala mamahnya... 

Jika mamahnya seorang pemarah dan pendendam, maka si anak juga bakalan memiliki sifat yang sama seperti mamahnya... 

Kan sudah di bilang yang namanya anak itu ibarat kertas putih bersih... 

Kitalah selalu orang tuanya yang menjadi tinta atau pulpennya... 

Maka buat kalian khusus para wanita, jika kalian marah sama suami kalian, kalian dendam sama suami kalian karena pernah melakukan satu kesalahan, 

Peupeujeuh, jangan kalian ungkapin sama anak kalian, karena jika kalian ungkapin semua unek unek kalian, rasa keheul, rasa benci dan dendam kalian kepada suami kalian, lalu kalian omongin didepan anak kalian, 

Lalu anak kalian mendengar apa yang keluar dari mulut ibunya, 

Maka anak kita bakalan mempunyai sifat dendam dan rasa benci sama bapaknya, karena melihat dan mendengar ibunya yang ngomel ngomel di depan dia (anak) . 

Jadi secara tidak langsung kalian telah menanamkan sifat pendendam kepada anak kalian. 

Dan juga secara tidak kalian sadari, kalian ibunya telah menanamkan sifat pemarah dan mudah emosional kepada anak anak kalian. 

Nantinya kalian sendiri lah yang bakalan merasakan akibat dari apa yang kalian tanamkan... 

Yaitu anak kalian jadi gampang marah marah....

Punya sifat dendam kalau merasa sakit hati sama ucapan orang lain. 

In English  :

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Nature, emotionality and character are also the child's way of talking as a child, it imitates the nature, emotional, disposition as well as the mother's way of talking.

O people....

O mothers ....

You must know and you must realize, that a child's name is like white paper,

We are always the parents who make our children want to be Christians or Jews,

Or we are always the parents who make our children want to be good children or even naughty and naughty children.

It turns out, whose name is a child when he is not yet older,

Everything imitates his mother. From the start of the nature, the way of speaking,

So if you as fathers see that there is something strange and something wrong with the nature and way of talking about children,

For example, our children are still young and dare to fight what our parents say ...

Dare to speak that hurts our hearts, fathers, for the words of our children.

We as fathers, don't blame our children yet, because of their nature and behavior like that.

Because in fact, the nature and way of talking to our children to us, the parents imitate the way their mother talks everyday ..

So if your child talks nagging and nagging, you shouldn't feel strange, because your child's speech mimics her mother's way of talking ...

Because we know for ourselves, when a child is always close to his mother ...

So automatically, the personality, character, and way of speaking of this child imitates what he sees from his mother, imitates his mother's way of speaking because he often listens to her talk ... And emotionally imitates her mother ...

So if you as a father, if you see your child's behavior is nagging, it means that your child is imitating the mother's way of talking.

And from an emotional point of view, a child is more inclined to indulge in his motherly style ...

If his mother is angry and vengeful, then the child will also have the same characteristics as his mother ...

It's been said that the child's name is like a clean white paper ...

We are always the parents who become the ink or the pen ...

So for you especially women, if you are angry with your husband, you will grudge your husband for having done one mistake,

Peupeujeuh, don't you tell your children, because if you reveal all your grievances, feelings of anger, hatred and resentment towards your husbands, then you talk in front of your children,

Then your son hears what comes out of his mother's mouth,

So our child will have a grudge and hatred at his father, because he saw and heard his mother grumbling in front of him (child).

So indirectly you have instilled a vengeful nature in your child.

And also subconsciously, you mothers have instilled a temper tantrum and emotional easily in your children.

Later you are the ones who will feel the consequences of what you have planted ...

Namely, your child gets angry easily.

Have a grudge attitude if you feel hurt at what other people say.