RUMAH TANGGA YANG SAKINAH MAWADAH DAN WAROHMAH..
Yaitu yang saling mengantarkan keinginan pasangannya masing masing.
Silih anteurkeun kahayang....
Jadi nu ngarana rumah tangga mah gak ada yang jago...
Yang jago mah ya loggo...eettt daah eta mah iklan...
Jadi gak ada istilah jago dalam berumah tangga,semua orang pasti akan berkata masih belajar...
Mau yang baru berumah tangga maupun yang sudah berpuluh puluh tahun berumah tangga,
Semuanya pasti akan mengatakan maaih belajar...
Cuman didalam perjalanan hidup kita bisa melihat orang yang rumah tangganya itu kelihatannya adeeem gak pernah bertengkar...
Dan ada yang rumah tangga,itu gak pagi ,gak malam hayeuh we parasea,bertengkar mulu...
Dari sana kalian bisa membandingkan,rumah tangga yang kalian jalani itu kaya bagaimana,..
Jika kalian berani bertanya kepada orang yang sudah berpengalaman dalam hidup berumah tangga...
Dan kalian melihat rumah tangganya itu masih langgeng...tidak bercerai...
Kalian tanya,apa rahasia nya...
Jadi setelah saya sering bertanya tanya kepada setiap orang tua yang sudah berpengalaman dalam berumah tangga..
Dan rumah tangganya sama pasangan hidupnya pun masih berjalan tidak cerai...
Dia mengatakan,kunci utama keharmonisan dalam berumah tangga yang pertama adalah kejujuran....!
Terutama menyangkut keuangan yang kita dapatkan sehari hari...
Karena namanya seorang istri pasti bakalan menerima mau besar atau pun kecil yang di berikan oleh suaminya,asalkan suaminya jujur..
Kalau hari ini pendapatan yang dia dapat cuma segitu.
Karena kebanyakan orang bercerai dalam rumah tangga itu adalah masalah kejujuran...
Si suami tidak jujur dalam penghasilan yang dia dapatkan dalam sehari kepada istrinya..
Kalau suami jujur dalam pemasukan yang dia dapatkan dalam sehari,
Lalu di berikan kepada istri untuk resiko dapur,si istri bakalan menerima dengan senang hati,
Istri akan menerima di beri resiko dapur sedikit jika memang penghasilan hari itu didapatnya cuma segitu,
Dan si istri bakalan bersyukur,jika resiko dapur yang di kasih suami lebih banyak..
Yang kedua adalah silih anteurkeun kahayang masing masing...
Yang ketiga adalah lihatlah anak anak...
Yang ke empat,adalah belajarlah untuk menjadi dewasa,baik dalam menentukan sikap maupun berpikir.
Di sadari atau tidak ternyata,orang yang dewasa dalam berpikir itu biasanya akan lebih tenang dalam menyikapi setiap masalah yang sedang ia hadapi..
In english ::::
🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏 ___ assallaamualaikum ....__ 🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏
HOUSEHOLDS THAT SURE MAWADAHS AND RESPONSIBILITIES ..
Namely those who deliver the wishes of their respective partners.
Choose the anteash, my dear ...
So nu ngarana household no one is good ...
The good one is loggo ... eettt daah eta mah ad ...
So there is no term good at household, everyone will definitely say they are still learning ...
Whether they are newly married or who have been married for decades,
Everyone will definitely say that you want to learn ...
Only in the journey of life we can see people whose household looks cool, never quarrel ...
And there are those who are household, it's not morning, it's not night hayeuh we parasea, have a fight ...
From there you can compare, how rich is the household you live in, ..
If you dare to ask someone who is experienced in married life ...
And you see that the household is still lasting ... not divorced ...
You ask, what's the secret ...
So after I often ask questions to every parent who is experienced in household ..
And the household and his life partner are still running not divorced ...
He said, the main key to harmony in the first household is honesty ....!
Especially regarding the finances that we get every day ...
Because her name is a wife, she will definitely accept whether it is big or small what her husband gives her, as long as her husband is honest ..
If today the income he gets is only that much.
Since most people get divorced in a household it is a matter of honesty ...
The husband is not honest in the income he gets to his wife in a day ..
If the husband is honest in the income he gets in a day,
Then give it to the wife to risk the kitchen, the wife will happily accept,
The wife will receive a little kitchen risk if the income for that day is only that much,
And the wife will be grateful, if the kitchen risk that the husband gives is more ...
The second one is choosing the anteurkeun each one of them ...
So in living a married life, the best thing to say is to deliver the desires of each partner.
We, as husbands, have to give in first to deliver what our wives want first ..
If the wife asks to be delivered to the toilet, anteurkeun weh ... even though the toilet is also the way to do it ...
Vice versa, if the husband wants to be taken by the wife to the toilet,
The wife also has to deliver him, accompany him ...
Because our names are married, who else do we want to ask for help,
Except with the people closest to us first right?
The third is to look at the children ...
Sometimes we are not always in harmony with our wives or husbands,
There are times when we fight ....
Pak puk pek ... brengggg ... (broken plate) ... hahahaha ....
It is commonplace and has become commonplace in households ...
If you want to get along with your husband or wife after a fight,
Try to see our children ...
See, if we often fight, our children are depressed ...
Fourth, is to learn to be mature, both in determining attitudes and thinking.
Whether we realize it or not, people who are mature in thinking will usually be calmer in responding to any problems they are facing ..
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