Alasan banyak terjadinya perselingkuhan...

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Kenapa seorang istri bisa berselingkuh...?

Wahai kaum lelaki....

 

 Apakah kalian tahu,kenapa di jaman sekarang ini banyak sekali terjadinya perselingkuhan orang yang sudah berumah tangga??

Orang yang sudah punya suami tapi masih bisa selingkuh,begitupun sebaliknya,

Orang yang sudah punya istri tapi tetap berselingkuh...

Banyaknya kejadian seorang suami memergoki istrinya sedang berada di hotel dengan selingkuhannya...

Dan kenapa banyak pelaku perselingkuhan itu adalah seorang wanita?

Dan tidak sedikit pula pelakunya adalah lelaki??

Dikarenakan wanita yang telah menjadi istri,selalu dan berawal dari curhatan curhatan dia yang dia bikin postingan di media sosial..

Tentang hubungannya yang kurang harmonis dengan suaminya.

Tentang kelakuan suaminya...

Tentang kekurangan keuangan yang di kasih oleh suaminya...dan banyak lagi macemnya...

Dan kesusahan yang di alami oleh istri kita,semuanya ia curahkan di media sosial,

Kenapa bisa begini??

Yang pertama ,karena seorang istri bingung,harus kemana ia mencurahkan semua isi hatinya?

Mau curhat sama suami,suami terlalu sibuk dengan urusannya...

Dan juga suaminya terlalu sibuk dengan pekerjaan dan sibuk mengejar dunia.

Sehingga suami lupa kalau dia punya istri yang harus di kasih perhatian dan punya istri yang ingin di dengar keluh kesahnya.

Mau bilang sama orang tua,takut di sangka mengadu...

Sehingga pada akhirnya,membuat si istri ini tidak ada pilihan lain selain mencurahkan semua keluh kesah yang ia rasakan di media sosial.

Juga karena kurangnya perhatian si suami atas apa yang di rasakan oleh istrinyalah yang membuat si istri selalu membuat postingan  mengenai apa yang ia rasakan di media sosial.

Perselingkuhan itu berawal dari sebuah postingan si istri di media sosial,

Mulanya ada yang like,terus,saling like,saling komentar postingan,

Dan setelah merasa dekat,ngajak ketemuan,

Dan ujung ujungnya check in dah di hotel hahahaha....

Arek ngewe cenah.....upss.....

Jadi untuk kalian kaum adam,atau suami,jika kalian tidak ingin istri kalian selingkuh..

Maka buatlah istri kalian merasa nyaman dan tenang hatinya ketika bersama kalian.

Buatlah istri kalian enak untuk mengungkapkan isi hatinya kepada kalian,

Jadi lah seorang suami yang mau juga mendengar keluh kesah istrinya dan seorang suami yang bisa merasakan apa yang istrinya rasakan..

Yang harus kalian ketahui,sebenarnya tidka akan pernah ada namanya perselingkuhan jika si suami selalu mendengar keluhan istrinya,

Karena sekali lagi hal pertama yang membuat seorang istri berselingkuh itu karena kurangnya si suami mendengar istrinya..

Ajaklah istri kalian ngobrol minimal 15 menit wae...tentang masa depan rumah tangga,tentang target kedepannya mau punya apa?

Tentang anak anak...

Tapi inget ngobrolnya jangan lagi mau tidur,biasanya malah jadi pertengkaran yang hebat kalau ngobrolnya ketika mau tidur...

Ngobrolnya saat pagi pagi...paling enak...sambil menikmati secangkir kopi hehehehe....

Jika kalian sering memdengarkan apa yang sedang di rasakan oleh istri kalian,maka nantinya istri kalian bakalan mendengar semua perintah kalian...

Jadi timbal balik bukan?

Catatan :

Perselingkuhan itu terjadi bukan karena faktor ekonomi,

Tapi perselingkuhan itu terjadi karena kurangnya komunikasi antara si suami dan istri...

Karena semakin lama kita hidup bersama dengan suami atau istri kita,maka akan semakin cuek lah kita terhadap suami dan istri kita...

Oleh karena itu,untuk menjaga keharmonisan dalam berumah tangga,jalin komunikasi agar tetap berjalan...

Saling mendengarkan keluh kesah,si suami mendengar apa yang sedang di rasakan oleh istrinya,

Dan si istri mendengar keluh kesah si suaminya.

Jika sudah bisa saling demikian,maka insya alloh tidak akan pernah ada lagi yang namanya perselingkuhan...

In english:;::::;

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Why a wife can have an affair...?

O men....

Do you know why nowadays there are so many people who are married?

People who already have a husband but can still cheat, and vice versa.

People who already have a wife but still have an affair...

The number of incidents a husband caught his wife was at the hotel with his mistress...

And why are many of the perpetrators of the affair a woman?

And not a few of the perpetrators are men??

Because the woman who has become a wife, always and starting from her vent that she makes posts on social media..

About her less harmonious relationship with her husband.

About her husband's behavior...

About the lack of finances that her husband gave her...and many more...

And the difficulties experienced by our wives, all of which he pours out on social media,

How come??

The first, because a wife is confused, where should she pour all her heart?

Want to confide in husband, husband is too busy with his business...

And also her husband is too busy with work and busy chasing the world.

So that the husband forgets that he has a wife who must be given attention and has a wife who wants to be heard complaining.

Want to tell parents, afraid of being thought to complain...

So in the end, making this wife no other choice but to pour out all the complaints she felt on social media.

Also because the husband's lack of attention to what his wife feels is what makes the wife always make posts about how she feels on social media.

The affair began with the wife's post on social media,

At first there were likes, then, like each other, comment on each other's posts,

And after feeling close, invites to meet,

And in the end, check in at the hotel hahahaha....

Arek sucks cenah..... oops.....

So for you men, or husbands, if you don't want your wife to cheat on you..

So make your wife feel comfortable and at ease when she is with you.

Make your wife comfortable to express her heart to you,

So it's a husband who wants to also hear his wife's complaints and a husband who can feel what his wife feels..

What you should know, actually there will never be an affair if the husband always hears his wife's complaints,

Because once again the first thing that makes a wife cheat on her is because the husband doesn't listen to his wife.

Invite your wife to chat for at least 15 minutes... about the future of your household, what are your future targets?

About children...

But remember the conversation is no longer going to sleep, it usually turns into a big fight if you talk about it when you want to sleep...

Chatting in the morning... the best... while enjoying a cup of coffee hehehehe....

If you often listen to what your wife is feeling, then later on your wife will hear all your orders...

So reciprocal right?

Note:

The affair was not due to economic factors,

But the affair happened because of a lack of communication between the husband and wife...

Because the longer we live together with our husbands or wives, the more indifferent we will be to our husbands and wives...

Therefore, to maintain harmony in the household, establish communication so that it continues to run...

Listening to each other's complaints, the husband hears what his wife is feeling,

And the wife heard the complaints of her husband.

If we can do this to each other, then God willing, there will never be another thing called infidelity...