Jangan mudah berprasangka dan jangan mudah percaya apa kata orang mengenai istri atau suami kita.

🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏___ assallaamualaikum....__🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏

Jika kita mendengar kabar tentang suami atau istri kita jalan dengan orang lain,

Wahai manusia...

Terutama buat kalian yang sudah berumah tangga,pernah tidak kalian mengalami,

Ketika kita sedang dagang atau kerja,lalu ada orang yang mengabarkan jika istri  kita jalan dengan orang lain.

Otomatis yang tadinya kita dagang lagi enak enak santai dan tenang,berubah menjadi esmosi...

Eh emosi cenah...

Dagang kita jadi teu pararuguh(jadi gak pokus).

Pikiran kita langsung kemana mendi..

Hingga akhirnya kita putuskan buat buru buru pulang,dan langsung datangin istri kita...

Nah ketika kita sudah bertemu dengan istri kita,hal pertama yang harus kita lakukan adalah,

Jangan dulu terbawa esmosi ,eettt daaah esmosi deui wae...

Emosi cenah...hahahaha...

Jadi kita harus tetap tenang,dan jangan marah marah.

Tanya langsung dulu ke istri kita,

Duh yang sudah jalan jalan,tadi abis jalan jalan darimana??

Nanti kan istri kita menjawab,jalan jalan darimana?

Orang dari tadi juga gak kemana mana..

Itu tadi ada orang yang bilang katanya kamu tadi jalan jalan,sama orang lain,(kita suaminya menjelaskan..)

Nanti istri kita kan bakalan jelasin sama kita,

Denger ya aku tuh dari tadi gak kemana mana,mungkin orang yang mengatakan hal itu,salah lihat orang....(istri kitanya jelasin).

Mungkin juga(pikirku).

Bisa jadi ,soalnya ketika aku pulang istriku ada di rumah dan lagi tidur.

(Pelajaran yang bisa di ambil adalah,ketika kita mendengar berita buruk mengenai istri kita).

Yang bilang istri kita jalan sama orang lain lah,atau istri kita punya selingkuhan lah...

Hal yang harus kita sikapi adalah jangan terpancing  dan mudah percaya isu "KATA ORANG"..

Kita harus punya prinsip,selama itu cuman katanya atau kata orang lain,dan kita belum melihat dengan mata kepala kita sendiri,

Maka jangan mudah percaya...!

Karena bisa jadi orang yang mengatakan hal itu ingin menghasut kita,agar kita bertengkar dengan istri kita.

Atau mungkin orang yang mengatakan hal tersebut hanya buat supaya rumah tangga kita hancur...

Jadi tetap tenang ketika mendengar hal hal buruk yang orang lain katakan tentang istri atau suami kita...

Tanya langsung istri atau suami kita nya.

Dan yang pasti adalah yang tahu siapa istri kita adalah diri kita,

Yang tahu siapa suami kalian,ya kalian sendiri istrinya.

Jadi sikapi semua berita negatif yang datang kepadamu mengenai istri atau suami mu dengan tetap tenang dan bijaksana..

In english ::::::

🙏___ assalamualaikum....__🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏

If we hear news about our husband or wife going out with someone else,

O people...

Especially for those of you who are married, have you ever experienced,

When we are trading or working, then there are people who tell us if our wife or husband is walking with someone else.

Automatically what we used to trade again was delicious, relaxed and calm, turned into an emotion...

Oh, good emotions...

Our trade becomes teu pararuguh (so it's not focused).

Where do our thoughts go?

Until finally we decided to hurry home, and immediately came to our wife...

Well when we've met our wife, the first thing we have to do is,

Don't get carried away with emotion, eettt daaah emotion deui wae...

Emotions...

So we have to stay calm, and don't get angry.

First ask our wife directly,

Duh, those who have been walking, where did you come from?

Later, our wife will answer, where do you go from?

People from earlier are also not going anywhere..

There was someone who said that you were walking with someone else, (we, her husband, explained..)

Later our wife will explain to us,

Listen, I haven't been anywhere since, maybe the person who said that, saw the wrong person....(our wife explained).

Maybe (I thought).

It could be because when I get home my wife is at home and sleeping..

The lesson to be learned is, when we hear bad news about our wives,

Those who say that our wives go out with other people, or that our wives have an affair...

The thing we have to deal with is not to be provoked by the "WORDS OF PEOPLE" issue..

We must have principles, as long as it's just what other people say, and we haven't seen it with our own eyes.

So don't be easy to believe...!

Because it could be the person who said that wants to incite us, so that we fight with our wives.

Or maybe the person who said that just to make our household destroyed...

So stay calm when you hear bad things that other people say about your wife or husband...

Ask the person directly.

And what is certain is that the one who knows who our wife is is ourselves,

The one who knows who your husband is, you are his own wife.

So, deal with all the negative news that comes to you regarding your wife or husband by remaining calm and wise.