🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏___ assallaamualaikum....__🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏

Jangan lah kalian terburu buru untuk menikah...

Wahai para pemuda....

Mungkin kalian berpikir,kalau kita menikah itu enak ya...

Kemana mana kita bisa berdua dengan pasangan kita...

Pas acara pernikahan,di bikinin panggung yang bagus..

Tapi yang harus kalian ketahui,

Menikah itu enak nya cuman pas saat malam hari aja,bisa ngewe cenah hahahaha

Pas datang pagi,

Mulai datang masalah dan kita mulai di tagih buat bayar atau buat gantiin uang yang di pakai pas acara hajatan nikah kita dengan pasangan kita.

Kirain acara ngadain acara itu gak bakalan nyusahin tahunya tetap aja,karena kita yang menikah,

Maka setelah acara hajatan itu selesai,kita langsung di bebankan masalah biayai pernikahan kita.

Mungkin kalian berpikir,jika kalian menikah,kalian bisa hidup bersama dengan pacar kalian selama lamanya...

Dan ternyata,setelah kita rumah tangga,kita baru mengetahui sifat asli pasangan kita yang selama berpacaran itu.

Baik dan buruknya sifat pasangan kita itu,mulai kita ketahui setelah kita berumah tangga. 

Sehingga yang tadinya kita berpikir bakalan enak terus bersama dengan pasangan kita,setelah kita tahu sifat aslinya...

Waduuuhhh....

Mungkin ketika dulu kamu pacaran,kamu kepeleset juga,pacar mu bilang hati hati sayang...

Kamu gak apa apa kan sayang...?

Tapi setelah berumah tangga,ketika kamu jatuh terpeleset,pasangan kamu malah bilang boga panon henteu ari sia teh(punya mata gak sih kamu teh!).

HahahahahahA...

Eettt daah si oncoOoOmmm....

Setiap hari kamu di tuntut untuk mencari nafkah,buat para suami.

Dan setiap hari kamu di tuntut untuk merawat dan mengurus anak anak mu buat para istri.

Gak siang dan gak malam...ketika anak mu menangis kamu kudu siap untuk mengurusnya.

Semakin bertambah nya usia pernikahan,semakin berubah drastis lah apa yang dulu pernah kita pikirkan.

Juga dulu ketika masih berpacaran,kita membayangkan jika menikah kita bisa hidup bersama dengan pasangan kita.

Maka jika setelah puluhan tahun kita menikah,kita baru tahu,jika kita selalu bersama kemana mana..maka...

Siapa yang bakalan cari duit... 

Kalau duit gak di cari,siapa yang mau kasih kamu makan...?

Siapa yang mau kasih kamu uang buat beli susu anak mu...

Siapa yang mau bayarin listrik kamu tiap bulan.

Siapa yang mau bayarin kontrakan kamu,jika kamu hidup mandiri dan ngontrak rumah?

Jadi setelah kita punya anak,kebutuhan kita itu makin bertambah...

Masalah demi masalah datang silih berganti...

masalah yang datang dari mertua kita,orang tua kita,saudara saudara kita dan bahkan dari teman teman kita.

Bahkan dari istri atau suami kita sendiri yang berbeda pemikiran untuk mencapai tujuan bersama.

Yang membuat kamu berpikir...

Ternyata menikah itu memang perlu kesiapan mental yang benar benar,dan gak bisa asal asalan.

Asal udah nikah udah.

Menikah itu sekali lagi enak nya cuman satu kita bisa sama sama melampiaskan nafsu kita kepada pasangan kita.

Udah itu aja...titik.

Jadi sebelum kamu benar benar ingin menikah,persiapkan dulu mental kamu...

Yaitu latihlah diri kamu,agar tidak bergantung kepada mahluk,tapi gantunglah hidup mu hanya kepada alloh...

Dengan mendirika sholat!

Iya sholat di awal waktu...!

Karena dengan sholat,jiwa mu akan tenang dan ketika menghadapi masalah kamu tetap bisa tenang dalam menghadapinya.

Karena yakin,semua masalah yang menghampiri kamu,adalah ujian dari alloh,

Maka satu satunya cara agar bisa menyelesaikan masalah yang kita hadapi,adalah dengan mendekatkan diri kepada alloh...

Agar mental kita kuat,agar alloh memberi jalan keluar yang mudah dari setiap masalah yang kamu hadapi.

In english ::::

🙏___ assalamualaikum....__🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏

Don't be in a hurry to get married...

O youths....

Maybe you think, if we get married it's good...

Where can we be alone with our partner...

At the wedding, the bikini stage is beautiful..

But what you should know,

It's good to get married, it's just right at night, you can fuck cenah hahahaha

When morning comes,

Problems and problems start to come that we start being billed for or to replace the money that is used for our wedding celebration with our partner.

Do you think that holding the event won't bother you, still, because we're the ones who got married,

So after the celebration was over, we were immediately charged with the problem of financing our wedding.

Maybe you think, if you get married, you can live together with your boyfriend forever...

And it turns out, after we are household, we only know the true nature of our partner who was dating.

The good and the bad nature of our partner, we start to know after we get married.

So that we thought it would be good to continue to be with our partner, after we knew his true nature...

Wow....

Maybe when you were dating, you slipped too, your boyfriend said be careful dear...

Are you okay honey...?

But after getting married, when you fell and slipped, your partner even said boga panon henteu ari sia tea (don't you have eyes!).

HahahahahaA...

Eettt daah si oncoOoOmmm....

Every day you are required to earn a living, for husbands.

And every day you are required to care for and take care of your children for your wives.

Not day and not night... when your child cries you have to be ready to take care of him.

The older the age of marriage, the more drastic changes are what we used to think.

Also, when we were dating, we imagined that if we got married, we could live together with our partner.

So if after tens of years we are married, we just know, if we are always together where,

Who will make money...

If you don't find money, who will give you food...?

Who wants to give you money to buy your child's milk...

Who wants to pay for your electricity every month.

Who will pay your rent, if you live independently and rent a house?

So after we have children, our needs are increasing...

Problem after problem comes and goes...

problems that come from our in-laws, our parents, our brothers and sisters and even from our friends.

Even from our own wives or husbands who have different thoughts to achieve common goals.

Which makes you think...

It turns out that getting married really needs mental readiness, and it can't be careless.

As long as you're already married.

Getting married is once again the pleasure of only one we can both vent our lust for our partner.

That's all... period.

So before you really want to get married, prepare your mental first...

That is train yourself, so as not to depend on creatures, but hang your life only on Allah...

By establishing prayer!

Yes pray at the beginning of time...!

Because with prayer, your soul will be calm and when you face problems you can still be calm in dealing with them.

Because you are sure, all problems that come your way are a test from Allah.

So the only way to be able to solve the problems we face, is to draw closer to Allah...

So that we are mentally strong, so that Allah will give an easy way out of every problem you face.