jadilah orang tua yang bijaksana

HAL YANG HARUS DI LAKUKAN OLEH KITA SELAKU ORANG TUA JIKA MELIHAT ANAK KITA MELAKUKAN KESALAHAN ATAU BERBUAT SALAH ATAU MASALAH.

Selaku orang tua kita seharusnya berlaku bijak,baik kepada orang yang umurnya lebih tua dari kita,maupun yang masih di bawah umur kita.

namanya anak kecil terkadang dia banyak rasa ingin tahu,tapi terkadang rasa ingin tahunya itu  malah membuat barang-barang yang ada di rumah kitaberantakan,terkadang bikin rusak.

nah kalau anak kalian melakukan kesalahan seperti memecahkan gelas  antik kesayangan kita atau menghilangkan kalung emas 1 kg,jangan kalian tunjukin kemarahan kalian di depan mata anak kalian,nanti aja marahnya kalau anak kita sudah main,kita pergi ke kamar tidur ambil bantal guling,baru deh bantal guling itu kita pukul-pukulin sambil kita keluarin amarah kita  dan unek unek kita sama bantal guling tersebut,

kalau di depan anak kita mah kita tunjukin rasa tidak peduli kita sama benda kesayangan kita.kita bilang  saja,kamu tidak apa-apa kan nak?

nanti kan si anak malah jadi bingung,ko orang tua saya tidak marahin saya?

terus kamu bilang saja ke anak kamu,gelas pecah mah kita bisa cari lagi di pasar,emas hilang mah gampang masih banyak toko emas di pasar juga ntar kita beli lagi(padahal mah di dalam hati kita sedih banget ,hadeuuh ya allohmana sekarang lagi tidak punya duit lagi,belum cair gajian)

hahahah....

kenapa kita harus bersikap demikian?karena kita menjaga perasaan anak kita,kita tunjukinkalau anak kita tuh lebih berharga dari pada mobil ferari dan lebih mahal daripada emas 7 kg.

kelak ketika anak kita tumbuh dewasa dan kita menjadi tuadan lemah.

dan ketika kita dalam pengawasan anak kita dan kitamelakukan kesalahan dan kita tidak sengaja memecahkan piringbekas kita makan,nantinya anak kita tidak akan marahin kita,

dan tidak akan ngomel-ngomelin kita,dia lebih memilih diri kita di banding piring yang kita pecahin yang dilapisi emas 14 kg.

itulah yang namanya hukum sebab akibat dalam kehidupan di dunia ini.

in english:

THINGS WE HAVE TO DO BY WHEN PARENTS IF SEE OUR CHILDREN ARE DOING ERRORS OR MADE FALSE OR PROBLEMS.

As our parents, we should act wisely, both for people who are older than us, and those who are under our age.

His name is a small child, sometimes he is a lot of curiosity, but sometimes his curiosity actually makes the items in the house messy, sometimes makes it broken.

well if your child makes a mistake like breaking our favorite antique glass or removing a 1 kg gold necklace, don't show your anger in front of your child's eyes, then he will be angry if our child is playing, we go to the bedroom, take a pillow, then the bolster pillow we beat while we exited our anger and unek us for the bolster pillow,

if in front of our children we point out the feeling of not caring about our favorite objects. We just say, are you okay, kid?

later, the child will be confused, how come my parents don't anger me?

then you just say to your child, the broken glass we can find again in the market, the gold is gone easy, there are still many gold shops in the market, we will buy it again (even though we are very sad in our hearts, huh? more money, not yet liquid payday)

hahahah ....

why do we have to do that? Because we maintain the feelings of our children, we point out that our children are more valuable than ferari cars and more expensive than 7 kg of gold.

later when our children grow up and we become parents and weak.

and when we are supervised by our children and we make mistakes and we accidentally break the dishes we eat, our children will not be angry with us later,

and won't be grumbling at us, he prefers us to be compared to the plate we broke with 14 kg of gold.

that is what is called the law of cause and effect in life in this world.