Di saat kau benci dengan suamimu,maka jangan tularkan kebencianmu terhadap suami mu kepada anakmu

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DI SAAT KAU BERTENGKAR...

Jangan luapkan emosi kalian kepada anak anak kalian.

Jadi di saat kita dengan suami kita,atau dengan istri kita sedang bertengkar,

Yang menjadi sasaran luapan emosi istri kita selalu anak anak kita.

Anak anak kita menjadi sasaran kemarahan dan kebencian istri kita,

Padahal yang di benci adalah kita suaminya,tapi anak kitalah yang menjadi sasaran kemarahan istri kita.

Ingatlah,dan ketahuilah,janganlah kalian menanamkan kebencian kepada anak anak kalian...

Jika kalian setiap bertengkar dengan suami kalian,dan kalian luapkan semua kekesalan kalian kepada anak anak kalian,

Secara tidak langsung,kalian itu sedang menanamkan bibit bibit kebencian kepada anak kalian.

Ingatlah kalian yang menanam,maka kelak kalian jua lah yang akan menuainya.

Kalian menanamkan kebencian,otomatis nantinya si anak jadi pemarah,nantinya jika kalian mengajarkan kebencian kepada anak anak kalian..

Kalian ajarkan anak kalian,

Supaya membenci bapaknya,karena kalian istrinya sangat membenci suaminya.

Maka kalian sebagai ibu dari anak anak selalu menekankan agar anak kalian membenci bapaknya.

Secara tidak langsung,kalian telah membuat anak kalian menjadi pribadi yang pendendam.

Nantinya bukan hanya anak kalian akan membenci bapaknya saja,tapi nantinya anak anak kalian juga akan membenci kalian ibunya juga.

Karena harus kalian ingat,namanya anak itu yang berfungsi adalah hatinya...

Ketika Dia  di tekan oleh ibunya supaya membenci bapaknya,maka si anak ini,menjadi merasa serba salah..

Kenapa aku harus membenci bapakku,hingga akhirnya anak anak kalian pun membenci kalian juga ibunya,

In english :::

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WHEN YOU ARROW ...

Don't take your emotions out on your children.

So when we are with our husbands, or with our wives we are fighting,

Our wives always target our wives' emotions.

Our children are the targets of our wives' anger and hatred,

Even though what we hate is our husbands, but our children are the targets of our wives' anger.

Remember, and know, do not instill hatred in your children ...

If you fight everytime with your husband, and you vent all your irritation on your children,

Indirectly, you are planting seeds of hatred in your children.

Remember you are the one who planted it, then later you will also reap it.

You instill hatred, automatically later the child will become angry, later if you teach hatred to your children ..

In order to hate the father, because you wives really hate their husbands.

So you as mothers of children always press so that your children hate their fathers.

Indirectly, you have made your child a vengeful person.

Later, not only will your children hate their fathers, but later your children will hate you their mothers too.

Because you have to remember, the name of the child that functions is the heart ...

When he was pressured by his mother to hate his father, this child felt completely wrong ..

Why should I hate my father, until finally your children hate you and their mother too,

So, the good thing is, no matter how much you hate your husbands when you fight,

Tell your children, you still have to respect your father,

Because after all it is your father.

If you instill good things in your children, then that kindness will come back to you the mother.