Ujian untuk menjadi imam yang baik bagi keluarga memangkah sangat berat!

🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏___ assallaamualaikum....__🇲🇨🇲🇨🙏

Beratnya ujian seorang imam, dalam rumah tangga ketika ia mencoba bangkit dalam keterpurukan! 

Seorang lelaki yang selalu di remehkan  oleh istrinya, namun ia masih bertahan hidup bersama istrinya itu karena yang dia lihat  adalah anak anaknya. 

Walaupun beberapa kali ia sering di hina, di  caci, di maki  serta di usir dari rumah,oleh istrinya dan keluarga dari istrinya... 

 

 Ia masih mencoba bertahan untuk tidak pergi dan meninggalkan istrinya, bukan karena terlalu sayang kepada istrinya, 

Akan tetapi tidak mau jauh dari anak anaknya. 

Namun jika istrinya selalu menjauhi nya, dan selalu menjauhkan anak anaknya dari bapaknya. 

Maka hilanglah sudah rasa sayang untuk istrinya tersebut! 

Rasa yang sangat untuk menyayangi istrinya tersebut lama kelamaan terkikis oleh perkataan perkataan  kasar yang keluar dari mulut istrinya. 

Hingga membuat si suami merasa hidupnya sendirian. 

Dan karena sudah terbiasa di cuekin dan di biarkan sendirian, maka si suami pun akhirnya terbiasa hidup sendirian. 

Itu karena istrinya yang selalu menjauhkan dirinya dan menghindar dari suaminya, serta menjauhkan anak anak suami nya dari bapak nya! 

Maka alhasil lama kelamaan si suami tersebut sudah mulai terbiasa hidup tanpa istri dan anak anaknya. 

Si suami akhirnya pun tersadarkan, untuk keluar dari masalah seperti ini, maka ia harus bisa memperbaiki keadaan dirinya terlebih dahulu. 

Hingga akhirnya ia memutuskan untuk lebih pokus memikirkan dirinya sendiri. 

(Untuk bangkit dalam ketepurukan hidupnya). 

Karena si suami telah terbiasa hidup jauh dari anak anak dan istrinya, bukan kehendak dan kemauan si suami tersebut, 

Yang ingin berpisah dari istri dan anak anaknya. 

Namun istrinya lah yang selalu menjauhkan anak anaknya dari bapaknya... 

In english :::::

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The weight of a priest's test, in the household when he tries to rise in a slump!

A man who is always underestimated by his wife, but he still lives with his wife because what he sees are his children.

Although several times he was often humiliated, scorned, abused and kicked out of the house, by his wife and his wife's family ...

He is still trying to survive not to go and leave his wife, not because he loves her too much,

However, they do not want to be far from their children.

But if his wife always keeps away from him, and always keeps her children away from their fathers.
Then the affection for his wife is gone!

The feeling that was very fond of his wife was gradually eroded by the harsh words that came out of his wife's mouth.


To make the husband feel his life is alone.

And because he is used to being ignored and left alone, the husband finally gets used to living alone.

That is because his wife always keeps herself away and avoids her husband, and keeps her husband's children away from their fathers!

So as a result, over time the husband is getting used to living without his wife and children.

The husband finally woke up, to get out of a problem like this, then he had to be able to improve his condition first.


Until finally he decided to focus more on himself.
(To rise to the pile of life)

Because the husband has become accustomed to living away from his children and wife, not the husband's will and will,

Who wants to separate from his wife and children.
But it was his wife who always kept her children away from their fathers ...