Cobalah untuk jujur,jika kalian punya uang katakan punya,jika tidak punya katakan memang tidak punya....! (untuk para istri)

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Jangan pernah kalian mengatakan,gak punya uang mulu sama suami kalian.

Wahai kaum hawa...

Ketika kau ditanya oleh suamimu mengenai masalah uang,

Bila memang kau punya uang,maka katakanlah kau punya.

Dan bila memang kau tak menyimpan uang seperak pun,maka katakanlah sejujurnya,seadanya sama suami kalian.

Karena kenapa?

Karena yang harus kau ketahui,ucapanmu adalah do'amu sendiri...

Jadi jika kau di tanya suamimu mengenai masalah uang,dan kau berkata kau tidak punya uang,padahal sebenarnya kau masih menyimpan uang,

Maka nantinya uang yang kau simpan akan benar benar hilang,

Karena ucapanmu itu adalah do'amu sendiri.

Walaupun suamimu tidak mengetahui kau menyimpan uang,tapi kau bilang kepada suamimu kalau kau tidak punya uang..

Ingatlah alloh itu maha melihat dan akan mencatat semua ucapan yang keluar dari mulutmu.

Jika niat kau mengatakan tidak punya uang agar suamimu giat cari duit dan tidak leha leha,maka alangkah baiknya kalian bicarakan langsung atau kalian utarakan langsung sama suami kalian.

Bahwasannya kalian takut,jika kalian bilang kalian masih punya uang,nantinya suami kalian menjadi malas untuk mencari uang.

Da mereunan masih ada uang ini(pikir suami kalian).

Nah dari sinilah kita dihadapkan pada situasi  dimana kedewasaan kita di uji.

Dan untuk para suami yakinkanlah kepada istri kalian,bahwasannya saya ini juga manusia dan bukan robot,ada

Saatnya saya ingin bisa istirahat...

Jadi jika tiap di tanya,dan kalian selalu menjawab selalu tidak punya uang mulu,kapan saya bisa istirahat....?

Disinilah rasa saling memahami dan rasa saling pengertian di antara kita suami dan istri di perlukan....

Si istri harus menyadari bahwa suaminya  juga seorang manusia,dan bukan robot.

Yang butuh namanya istirahat.

Dan si suami pun harus bisa nyadar diri,jangan mentang mentang istri kita masih megang uang,menyebabkan kita menjadi malas buat nyari duit.

Jadi sebisa mungkin kita harus memiliki rasa  saling mengerti dan bisa saling memahami.

Catatan::

Untuk para suami,

Kalian itu harus bisa membedakan,jika istri kita memang benar benar tidak memegang uang seperak pun,

Biasanya tingkahnya sama omongannya itu kayak orang panik,

Dan suka uring uringan mulu...

Tapi jika istri kita bilang gak punya duit,sementara kita melihat istri kita seperti adem adem mulu,itu tandanya istri kita masih memegang uang,istilahnya masih punya uang simpanan...hehehehehe....

In english::::

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Don't you ever say you don't have money with your husband.

O women...

When you are asked by your husband about money matters,

If you have money, then say you have.

And if indeed you don't save a penny of money, then tell the truth, as modest as your husband.

Because why?

Because what you should know, your words are your own prayers...

So if you ask your husband about money matters, and you say you don't have money, when in fact you still have money,

Then later the money you save will really be lost,

Because your words are your own prayers.

Even though your husband doesn't know you have money, but you tell your husband that you don't have money..

Remember Allah is all-seeing and will record all the words that come out of your mouth.

If your intention is to say you don't have money so that your husband is actively looking for money and doesn't let go, then it would be better for you to talk directly or tell your husband directly.

That you are afraid, if you say you still have money, later your husband will be lazy to make money.

Da Reunanan still has this money (think your husband).

So from here we are faced with a situation where our maturity is tested.

And for husbands, make sure to your wives, that I am also a human and not a robot, there are

It's time for me to take a break...

So if you are asked every time, and you always answer that you always don't have any money, when can I take a break....?

This is where a sense of mutual understanding and mutual understanding between us husband and wife is needed....

The wife must realize that her husband is also a human, and not a robot.

What needs rest is called.

And the husband must also be aware of himself, don't think that our wife still has money, causing us to be lazy to make money.

So as much as possible we must have a sense of mutual understanding and can understand each other.

Note::

For husbands,

You guys have to be able to tell the difference, if our wife really doesn't hold any silver,

Usually he acts the same way he talks like a panicked person,

And like to be grumpy...

But if our wife says she doesn't have money, while we see our wife looks cool and cool, that's a sign that our wife still has money, the term is that she still has money saved... hehehehehe...