Saat kamu ngajak istrimu untuk tinggal bersama mu lagi,namun istri mu menolak,kamu berusaha tetap sabar....

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Ketika kamu mengajak istrimu untuk kembali hidup bersama dalam satu rumah namun istrimu masih belum mau....

Untuk kamu yang masih terus berjuang...

Yang namanya rumah tangga itu ujian nya macam macam.

Dan masih berlanjut dari cerita sebelumnya.ketika kamu mengalami pisah ranjang dengan istri kamu.

Kemudian kamu bisa baikan lagi sama istri kamu,namun kamu masih belum bisa untuk hidup bersama dalam satu rumah.

Kamu pun berpikir,mungkin istri mu masih ada rasa marah sama kamu dan masih menyimpan luka di hatinya akibat ulah kamu tempo dulu.

Mungkin butuh waktu lama dan proses yang agak panjang agar hati istrimu bisa melunak dan bisa memaafkan dirimu.

Perlu ada kesabaran di dalam diri kamunya.tapi seiring waktu berjalan,kamu pun mulai sering timbul rasa curiga pada istrimu.

Di karena posisi kamu jauh dari istrimu.di sebut jauh da masih ada dalam satu kota,hanya berbeda kecamatan saja.

Hanya berbeda tempat untuk tidur saja.(eh...ini kan sama aja masih pisah ranjang,ah bodo amat dah...)

Kamu ngontrak sendirian,sedang istri kamu tinggal dengan paman dan bibinya di kontrakan milik mereka.

Karena kamu jauh,maka dari itu wajarlah jika kamu sering timbul rasa curiga kepada istrimu.

Hingga suatu waktu,kamu pun bicara sama istri kamu.mencoba mengajak istrimu agar mau tinggal bersama kamu di kontrakan tempat kamu tidur.

Tapi sayangnya,istri kamu menolak,sempat kesel dan pengen marah marah...tapi kamu tetap nyadar diri...

Bahwa kamu masih lemah...

Mungkin karena kontrakan yang kamu tempati kecil dan jelek,

Atau mungkin,tinggal di tempat kontrakan bibinya jauh lebih baik dari pada kontrakan tempat kamu tinggal.

Itu mungkin penyebab istri mu masih belum mau tinggal dengan kamu lagi.

Kalau kamu tinggal dengan istrimu di kontrakan milik paman dan bibi nya istrimu,itu gak mungkin,karena paman dan bibinya istrimu sudah sangat membenci kamu.

Posisi kamu kejepit.hanya kesabaran dan terus berusaha untuk sabar menerima apa yang menimpa kamu hari ini.

Mungkin ini jalan hidup kamu yang harus kamu lalui ya seperti saat ini.

Dan kamu pun belajar ikhlas untuk menerima semuanya.

Karena dari sisi lain,kamu melihat ada kebahagiaan yang terpancar  pada diri istrimu dan anak anak mu.

Dan kamu pun mengalah,ya sudah lah kamu gak usah ngotot kudu serumah dengan istrimu.jika kamu ngotot,itu berarti kamu egois...

Yang terpenting kamu sekarang sudah baikan lagi dan bisa komunikasi dengan istri dan anak anakmu.

Yang penting kamu masih bisa ngajak jalan jalan istri dan anak anak kamu.

Jauh gak masalah,selagi kamu masih bisa video call sama istrimu.

Dan dalam video call tersebut kamu masih bisa melihat senyuman istri mu.

Juga kamu masih bisa ngobrol dengan istrimu,serta anak anakmu.

Masalah kamu belum bisa tinggal bersama lagi dengan istri mu mah gak apa apa dan itu gak jadi masalah.

Kamu sadar diri aja,kamu masih lemah ekonomi nya....

Mungkin saat saat ini,inilah yang terbaik buat kamu dan buat istri dan anak anak mu.

Mungkin suatu saat nanti,ketika ujian ini telah bisa kamu lewatin kamu pun akan tahu maksud alloh berikan ujian seperti ini kepada kamu.

Alloh maha mengetahui apa apa yang terbaik buat diri kamu,sementara kamu sendiri belum tentu mengetahuinya.

Yang penting niat kamu,selama kamu ada di jalan yang lurus,alloh pasti bakalan ngasih jalan mudah dari setiap kesulitan yang sedang kamu hadapi.

In english ::::::

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When you invite your wife to come back to live together in one house but your wife still doesn't want to....

For those of you who are still struggling...

The household name has various kinds of tests.

And it still continues from the previous story. When you experience separation from your bed with your wife.

Then you can make up with your wife again, but you still can't live together in one house.

You also think, maybe your wife is still angry with you and still has a wound in her heart due to what you did in the past.

It may take a long time and a rather long process for your wife's heart to soften and be able to forgive you.

There needs to be patience in you. But as time goes on, you start to feel suspicious about your wife.

Because your position is far from your wife, it's called far and still in one city, only in different districts.

It's just a different place to sleep. (uh...it's the same as still separate beds, ah, that's really stupid...)

You rent alone, while your wife lives with her uncle and aunt in their rented house.

Because you are far away, it is only natural that you often feel suspicious of your wife.

Until one day, you talk to your wife. You try to get your wife to want to live with you in the rented house where you sleep.

But unfortunately, your wife refused, got annoyed and wanted to be angry... but you still realized yourself...

That you are still weak...

Maybe because the rent you live in is small and ugly,

Or maybe, living in his aunt's rented place is much better than the one where you live.

That may be the reason your wife still doesn't want to live with you anymore.

If you live with your wife in the rented house of your wife's uncle and aunt, it's impossible, because your wife's uncle and aunt hate you so much.

Your position is tight. Just be patient and keep trying to be patient with what happened to you today.

Maybe this is the path of your life that you have to go through as it is now.

And you learn to be sincere to accept everything.

Because from the other side, you see that there is happiness that radiates from your wife and your children.

And you relented, well, you don't have to insist on being at home with your wife. If you insist, it means you are selfish...

The most important thing is that you are now better again and can communicate with your wife and children.

The important thing is that you can still take your wife and children for a walk.

Far is not a problem, as long as you can still video call your wife.

And in the video call you can still see your wife's smile.

Also you can still chat with your wife, and your children.

The problem is that you can't live with your wife anymore, it's okay and that's not a problem.

You are aware of yourself, you are still economically weak....

Maybe at this time, this is the best for you and for your wife and children.

Maybe someday, when you can pass this test, you will know what Allah meant to give you a test like this.

Allah knows best what is best for you, while you don't necessarily know it yourself.

The important thing is your intention, as long as you are on the straight path, Allah will surely give you an easy way from every difficulty you are facing.