Tantangan yang baru kamu ketahui ketika kamu ingin kembali hidup bersama dengan istrimu setelah mengalami pisah ranjang.

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Tantangan yang baru kamu ketahui ketika kamu ingin kembali hidup bersama dengan istrimu setelah mengalami pisah ranjang.

Untuk kamu yang masih terus berjuang...

Ternyata untuk bisa kembali hidup serumah setelah mengalami pisah ranjang yang kamu rasakan saat ini bisa di bilang agak berat.

Ketika kamu meminta istri mu untuk kembali hidup bersama lagi dalam satu rumah...

Dan istri mu masih belum mau dan selalu menolak,

Awalannya kamu berpikir,yah mungkin istriku masih marah dan masih sakit hati oleh kelakuan ku dulu.

Tapi kesini sininya,ternyata orang orang di sekitar istrimu juga menjadi penghalang yang membuat kamu dan istrimu agak sulit untuk bersatu.

Bibinya,pamannya,bahkan ibunya istrimu sudah menyuruh istrimu agar jangan mau kembali kepadamu.

Tapi memang mungkin karena istrimu masih ada rasa sayang sama kamu,tapi ada rasa takut juga sama orang orang di sekitar istrimu..

Yang menyebabkan sikap istrimu kepadamu itu kadang suka marah marah sama kamu,kadang biasa biasa saja.

Setelah kamu pelajari,kenapa istri mu suka marah marah sama kamu,itu ternyata karena istri mu telah ngobrol dengan bibinya dan saudara saudaranya yang ngompor ngomporin hati istrimu.

Agar hati istri mu jadi emosi dan benci sama kamu.

Dan kamu tahu,jika istrimu marah marah sama kamu,untungnya kamu sudah paham bagaimana cara menyikapi istrimu itu,

Jadi ketika istrimu marah marah dan menyuruh kamu untuk segera pergi dari kontrakan yang istrimu tempati,

Kamu pun pergi,karena kamu paham,dan mengerti,istri mu mungkin sudah kena hasutan bibinya...

Atau saudaranya..

Kamu pun pergi dan sebelum pergi,seperti biasa,tanggung jawab mu tetap kamu lakukan,kamu kasih uang istri kamu buat bekel besok hari..

Kamu tahu,kamu sering di marah marahi istrimu,tapi kamu gak pernah benci dan marah sama istrimu,

Karena kamu sudah kenal sikap dan watak istrimu,daripada kamu buat kesalahan yang sama yang bisa membuat hancur lagi hati istrimu,

Maka lebih baik kamu mengalah,

Daripada sakit hati yang di rasakan oleh istrimu itu timbul kembali.

Dari sini baru bisa kamu pahami bahwa ternyata,memang jika kita telah mengalami pisah ranjang dengan istri kita atau suami kita,

Maka kemungkinan untuk bisa kembali bersatu itu sangatlah kecil,hanya orang orang yang tangguh lah yang terus menerus memperjuangkan dengan sekuat tenaga dan pikirannya agar rumah tangga nya dengan istrinya tidak hancur.

Karena ternyata perjuangan yang kamu lakukan untuk mempertahankan rumah tangga kamu dengan istrimu itu bisa bikin banyak sakit hati...

Tapi kamu selalu berpikir,mungkin inilah balasan yang kamu terima,untuk membayar akibat kesalahan yang pernah kamu lakukan dulu.

Kamu pun hanya bisa bersabar dan terus berjuang mempertahankan rumah tangga mu itu.

Walau kamu belum bisa satu rumah kembali,tapi se enggaknya hati kamu dan hati istrimu telah menyatu kembali..

In english :::::

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The new challenge you know when you want to return to live together with your wife after experiencing bed separation.

For those of you who are still struggling...

It turns out that to be able to return to living at home after experiencing the separation of beds that you feel right now can be said to be a bit heavy.

When you ask your wife to come back to live together again in one house...

And your wife still won't and always refuses,

At first you thought, well maybe my wife is still angry and still hurt by my behavior before.

But here and there, it turns out that the people around your wife are also a barrier that makes it a bit difficult for you and your wife to unite.

His aunts, uncles, even your wife's mother have told your wife not to come back to you.

But it is possible because your wife still has love for you, but there is also a fear of the people around your wife..

What causes your wife's attitude to you is that sometimes she likes to be angry with you, sometimes it's normal.

After you learn, why does your wife like to be angry with you, it turns out that your wife has been chatting with her aunts and siblings who are commingling your wife's heart.

So that your wife's heart becomes emotional and hates you.

And you know, if your wife is angry with you, fortunately you already understand how your wife is,

So when your wife gets angry and tells you to get out of the rented house your wife is in,

You go, because you understand, and understand, your wife may have been instigated by her aunt...

Or his brother...

You went and before leaving, as usual, you still do your responsibility, you give your wife money for repair work tomorrow..

You know, you are often angry with your wife, but you never hate and be angry with your wife,

Because you already know the attitude and character of your wife, than you make the same mistake that can break your wife's heart again,

Then you better give up

Instead of the heartache felt by your wife it came back.

From here you can only understand that it turns out, indeed, if we have experienced bed separation with our wives or husbands,

So the possibility of being reunited is very small, only tough people who continue to fight with all their might and mind so that their household with his wife is not destroyed.

Because it turns out that the struggle you do to maintain your household with your wife can make a lot of heartache...

But you always think, maybe this is the reward you receive, to pay for the mistakes you have made in the past.

You can only be patient and continue to fight to maintain your household.

Even though you can't go back to one house yet, but at least your heart and your wife's heart have reunited..