surat buat para kepala keluarga

WAHAI KAUM ADAM...TUGAS KITA SEBAGAI KEPALA KELUARGA ITU HANYA MENGARAHKAN ISTRI DAN ANAK-ANAK KITA AGAR SELALU MENGINGAT ALLOH SWT.

Wahai para kepala rumah tangga,harus kalian ketahui arahkanlah anak-anak juga istri kalian agar selalu mengingat alloh swt agar hidup keluarga kita berada dalam rahmatNYA,penuh kebarokahan...

alloh swt,tuhan kita yang mengatur semua urusan kita.

kita setiap hari pergi bekerja hanya untuk mencukupi kebutuhan hidup keluarga kita,tapi harus kalian ketahui dulu wahai saudaraku,janganlah semua hasil usaha atau hasil dagang kita,kita kasihkan kepada istri kita.

buat kalian yang mempunyai istri sholehah yang nurut sama perintah kalian,berarti kalian beruntung,kalau istri kalian nurut sama perintah kalian mah udah kasihin aja semua hasil dagang atau hasil kerja kalian selama sebulan pada istri kalian..

biarin istri kalian yang mengatur keuangan keluarga kalian,karena kalau istri yang pegang duit,duitnya pasti di beliin buat makan kita sama anak-anak kita.

tapi jika duit kita(SUAMI) yang pegang,terkadang ada temen datang kita langsung ngasih kopi  atau rokok buat temen kita,istilahnya suami megang duit mah buat dirinya sendiri.kalau istri yang megang duit buat kepentingan semua anggota keluarga.

balik lagi,kalian kasihin uang hasil dagang kalian atau hasil kerja kalian ke istri kalian,biarin deh istri kalian yang mengatur  buat di pake apalah terserah....

tapi,jika kalian mempunyai istri yang bedegong,heuras hatena,nagalawan wae kana parentah kalian sebagai suaminya,yang harus kalian adalah gak perlu kalian kasihin semua uang hasil dagang kalian  pada istri kalian,lho kenapa?

soalnya nantinya kalian sendiri yang bakal rugi.rugi karena sama perintah kalian saja gak nurut berani melawan,ari kana duit meni hejooooo...

jadi uang hasil dagang kalian kalian,kalian beliin beras sekilo  ke atau setengah kilo ke yang penting cukup buat makan sekeluarga sehari,sisanya uang kalian simpen sendiri.kalian kumpulin uangnya sendiri.kenapa gak kita kasih sama istri kita ?

pertama karena istri kita yang selalu melawan atau ngebantah perintah suaminya itu tidak akan bisa menghargai kerja keras suaminya.ia tidak akan bisa menghargai berapapun hasil yang di dapat oleh suami.

istri itu akan terus berontak.kalian harus tahu juga kenapa istri kita melawan setiap perintah kita.itu bisa jadi karena istri kita tidak pernah sholat yang lima waktu.jadi istri yang tidak pernah sholat itu akan lebih mudah di hasuti iblis untuk melawan kepada suaminya.

jadi pertama,usahain untuk merubah diri kalian terlebih dahulu agar mau sholat yang lima waktu di awal waktu,jika kalian sudah terbiasa,baru kalian ajak atau suruh istri kalian untuk sholat.

IN ENGLISH :

WAHAI WAS ADAM ... OUR ASSIGNMENT AS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY JUST DIRECTED OUR WIFE AND CHILDREN TO ALWAYS REMEMBER THE ALLOH SWT.

O heads of households, you must know direct your children and your wife to always remember Allah swt so that our family life is in His grace, full of grace ...

Allah swt, our God who regulates all our affairs.

we go to work every day just to meet the needs of our family life, but you must know first, O my brother, not all the results of our business or trade results, we give to our wives.

for those of you who have sholehah wives who obey your commands, it means that you are lucky, if your wives obey the same commands, you already love all the merchandise or your work for a month for your wife ..

let your wife manage your family's finances, because if the wife holds the money, the money must be bought for us to eat with our children.

but if our money is held, sometimes friends come we immediately give coffee or cigarettes to our friends, the term husband holds money for himself. If the wife is holding money for the interests of all family members.

back again, you love your trading money or your work to your wife, let your wife arrange to use whatever it's up ...

but, if you have a bedegong wife, heuras hatena, wae kagalawan kana your parents as her husband, what you have to do is you don't need to give all your trading money to your wife, why?

because later you will be the losers yourself. loss because of the same command you do not obey the courage to fight, ari from the money meni hejooooo ...

so the money from your trading, you buy a kilo or half a kilo of rice to the important thing is enough to eat a family a day, the rest of the money you save yourself. You collect the money yourself. Why don't we love our wives?

first because our wives who always oppose or refute her husband's orders will not be able to appreciate her husband's hard work. He will not be able to appreciate any results obtained by her husband.

the wife will continue to rebel. You must also know why our wife is against our every command. That could be because our wife has never prayed five times a day. So a wife who has never prayed will be more easily provoked by the devil to fight her husband.

so first, try to change yourself first so that you want to pray five times at the beginning of time, if you are used to it, then you invite or tell your wife to pray.